Spouse or Kids? Which comes first?

[sleepy]

BeContented:

sleepy:

6 months to 1.5 years of exclusively dating each other is the best time to get married. When the fire is still burning .. :evil:

Haha. No wonder I was tempted a few times. Later am going over to scold 'valvestate' & see if can wake him up.

Pot scolding kettle. :lightrod: :rotflmao:

Come on, don't just tell half the story le :evil:

[Mychildren]

sleepy:

BeContented:

[quote=\"sleepy\"]
6 months to 1.5 years of exclusively dating each other is the best time to get married. When the fire is still burning .. :evil:

Haha. No wonder I was tempted a few times. Later am going over to scold 'valvestate' & see if can wake him up.

Pot scolding kettle. :lightrod: :rotflmao:

Come on, don't just tell half the story le :evil:[/quote]Her story is found on another thread under relationship (need an advice on office relationship).

[verykiasumummy]

so is it true that valvestate and joule the same person??

[Mychildren]

verykiasumummy:

so is it true that valvestate and joule the same person??

I don't know .
But if they/he/she wants our view, just tell them loh.

[sleepy]

BeContented:

3Boys:

So, am I hearing a school of thought that once one is married, one does not need to work to keep the spouse happy or keep the spark of romance alive?

I made that mistake once (neglect DH) & I think we nearly got into trouble (or maybe I was over sensitive/suspicious) so I'm more for the same sch as 3Boys'.

I think this should apply both ways. I'm mostly the one being neglected le :rant:

However, I've no doubt dh is still reasonably besotted with me la. Well, he got jealous when he saw me buying breakfast (completely innocent!) together with a younger man yo


BeContended,
come on elaborate that part le. What happen?

[3Boys]

sleepy:

I think this should apply both ways. I'm mostly the one being neglected le :rant:

However, I've no doubt dh is still reasonably besotted with me la. Well, he got jealous when he saw me buying breakfast (completely innocent!) together with a younger man yo


BeContended,
come on elaborate that part le. What happen?

Certainly it needs to be a 2-way street.

[SBKS]

yes whatever the reason for a failed relationship, its a 2 way thing. fault never ever lies only on 1 side.

[mummyv]

Just yesterday DD told me when we were on the way home she was glad we still have a complete family unit. Most of her classmates parents are either divorced, in the process having cold war and arguing constantly. Her ex school principal during a casual conversation also told us that divorced families are most likely 40% of the school population…

[fightingmom]

mummyv:

Just yesterday DD told me when we were on the way home she was glad we still have a complete family unit. Most of her classmates parents are either divorced, in the process having cold war and arguing constantly. Her ex school principal during a casual conversation also told us that divorced families are most likely 40% of the school population...

how old is your dd , mummyv? :love:

[Mawar]

mummyv:

Just yesterday DD told me when we were on the way home she was glad we still have a complete family unit. Most of her classmates parents are either divorced, in the process having cold war and arguing constantly. Her ex school principal during a casual conversation also told us that divorced families are most likely 40% of the school population...

Wow! The percentage is much much higher than I expected.