In-law problems?

[Sunflower03]

janet_lee88:

Raemuumy:

yes sadly. MIL dont understand me and always try to get me and my hubby to quarrel. the good thing is my dh understand what kind of person my mil is so he always ignore. lol

You are lucky that hubby knows his mother's character. Mine here didn't know and refused to believe when I told him. It was only recently that he is seeing her true colors after 40 over years. When we quarreled bcos of her, she adds in salt...and being newly married then, that was dangerous.

As for me, my hubby knows his parents very well, esp his father. So whenever or whatever I feedback to him, he will believe. At times, when i can't tahan his father, i will ask my hubby to 'talk' to his father.

[janet88]

With daughters and DIL, treatment is so different...they allow daughters to talk to them in harsh tone...but if DIL stands firm, all the tears and drama like Mediacorp production. :mad:

[fifiyeo]

Oh mine is daughters can throw tantrums so does their favourite DIL. In fact favourite DIL got more power cos they can’t say her and will put up with any demands.

[janet88]

fifiyeo:

Oh mine is daughters can throw tantrums so does their favourite DIL. In fact favourite DIL got more power cos they can't say her and will put up with any demands.

The daughter always throws tantrums.
I couldn't be bothered to do so as I will lose miserably.

[SAHM Chew]

janet_lee88:

fifiyeo:

Oh mine is daughters can throw tantrums so does their favourite DIL. In fact favourite DIL got more power cos they can't say her and will put up with any demands.

The daughter always throws tantrums.
I couldn't be bothered to do so as I will lose miserably.

I cannot be bothered with PIL n SIL now even though we stay together. Just do my own things n they do their own things.

[janet88]

SAHM Chew:

janet_lee88:

[quote=\"fifiyeo\"]Oh mine is daughters can throw tantrums so does their favourite DIL. In fact favourite DIL got more power cos they can't say her and will put up with any demands.

The daughter always throws tantrums.
I couldn't be bothered to do so as I will lose miserably.

I cannot be bothered with PIL n SIL now even though we stay together. Just do my own things n they do their own things.[/quote]Wow, how do you do that? Staying together and yet have freedom to do own things. If I have to face them for 2 hours, my BP will shoot, especially with that spoilt brat daughter.

[SAHM Chew]

janet_lee88:

Wow, how do you do that? Staying together and yet have freedom to do own things. If I have to face them for 2 hours, my BP will shoot, especially with that spoilt brat daughter.

I just stay in my room :rahrah:

Even if we see each other, we just ignore each other. I am the bad DIL. But i cannot be bothered already. If not, i will have high BP everyday. And die earlier.

I am practising see no evil, hear no evil. :rotflmao: just stayed in my room n watch my drama..... Better to have drama at home.

[buds]

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I don't need more drama.. Ohmmm... Ohmmm...
I don't need more drama..Ohmmmm... Ohmmm...
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http://www.easyfreesmileys.com/facebook-smileys.htmlSpeak no evil, see no evil, hear no evil. http://www.easyfreesmileys.com/facebook-smileys.html

I'm a good DIL.http://www.freesmileys.org/smileys.php

[Sunflower03]

SAHM Chew:

janet_lee88:

Wow, how do you do that? Staying together and yet have freedom to do own things. If I have to face them for 2 hours, my BP will shoot, especially with that spoilt brat daughter.

I just stay in my room :rahrah:

Even if we see each other, we just ignore each other. I am the bad DIL. But i cannot be bothered already. If not, i will have high BP everyday. And die earlier.

I am practising see no evil, hear no evil.
:rotflmao: just stayed in my room n watch my drama..... Better to have drama at home.

But will u still help in household chores? The other DIL of my mil, stay in her room n never help to do the chores. My mil keep grumble abt her.

[Sunflower03]

SAHM Chew:

janet_lee88:

Wow, how do you do that? Staying together and yet have freedom to do own things. If I have to face them for 2 hours, my BP will shoot, especially with that spoilt brat daughter.

I just stay in my room :rahrah:

Even if we see each other, we just ignore each other. I am the bad DIL. But i cannot be bothered already. If not, i will have high BP everyday. And die earlier.

I am practising see no evil, hear no evil.
:rotflmao: just stayed in my room n watch my drama..... Better to have drama at home.

But will u still help in household chores? The other DIL of my mil, stay in her room n never help to do the chores. My mil keep grumble abt her.