2013 PSLE Discussions and Strategy
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Joining in, but yet to start countdown to psle preparation. I'm more worried than the actual child taking psle?!? :nailbite: haiz....
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kids'no1fan:
Joining in, but yet to start countdown to psle preparation. I'm more worried than the actual child taking psle?!? :nailbite: haiz....
normal...very normal :frustrated:
throughout the whole of last year, i felt like going to the exam hall to take the psle on his behalf...my son was like tortoise crawling...when doing his work, dropped pen, paper and took his time to pick them...then thirsty, yawned, hungry, toilet breaks. you name it :rant: -
janet_lee88:
My husband said wait until NS. He will be punished if he is still slow like that. But PSLE is this year. How to wait until NS? :stompfeet:kids'no1fan:
Joining in, but yet to start countdown to psle preparation. I'm more worried than the actual child taking psle?!? :nailbite: haiz....
normal...very normal :frustrated:
throughout the whole of last year, i felt like going to the exam hall to take the psle on his behalf...my son was like tortoise crawling...when doing his work, dropped pen, paper and took his time to pick them...then thirsty, yawned, hungry, toilet breaks. you name it :rant: -
if i have to wait till he reaches ns to wake up, my neck would be as long as giraffe…my blood pressure would have shot up !
my son ‘woke up’ 2 weeks before psle…he looked at the calendar and worry…so i took a breather.
plan a time-table…though it may not be possible to follow closely, at least there is a guide…do bear in mind that some schools will start supplementary lessons quite early and the poor kids will be tired. -
Hi parents,
Does your child’s math teacher insist on the last sentence for paper 2? My dd’s teacher says she will minus 1 mark if they do not write, but my ds’s teacher did not insist so last year when he took his psle. I find it wierd as it takes time to write that statement. Time is so precious, and I don’t see how this statement contributes to the 3-5 marks. Isn’t working more important for the marks allocation? And if the child copied the answer in the statement wrongly, wouldn’t they be penalised and lost marks then? What’s the logic? -
ngl2010:
Actually, it may not be a productivity issue. Perhaps your ds was not very interested at what he was supposed to be doing at that point in time?
Yesterday I observed him doing his work and for every 5 minutes of work, I noticed that he spent 5 minutes finding things, yakking, singing, dancing gangnam style and other useless things. His productivity is very low :faint:
My dd is usually very nua and reluctant to do anything that involves pen and paper. As an experiment, I decided to schedule something she looks forward to right after homework time, on condition that she had to finish (perfectly) the work in half the usual time. She sat up amd zoomed through everything without fidgeting with anything. So i realised it was a motivation issue with her.
On occasion, I've also found that changing the study/work venue works quite well too. Maybe boredom sets in after staring at the same wall continuously! -
CayennePepper:
My son does not like doing homework or revision. He loves to read and watch TV but he must do his homework, right?
Actually, it may not be a productivity issue. Perhaps your ds was not very interested at what he was supposed to be doing at that point in time?ngl2010:
Yesterday I observed him doing his work and for every 5 minutes of work, I noticed that he spent 5 minutes finding things, yakking, singing, dancing gangnam style and other useless things. His productivity is very low :faint:
My dd is usually very nua and reluctant to do anything that involves pen and paper. As an experiment, I decided to schedule something she looks forward to right after homework time, on condition that she had to finish (perfectly) the work in half the usual time. She sat up amd zoomed through everything without fidgeting with anything. So i realised it was a motivation issue with her.
On occasion, I've also found that changing the study/work venue works quite well too. Maybe boredom sets in after staring at the same wall continuously!
Thank you for your advice. I think I got an idea on how to motivate him to do his work faster.
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ngl2010:
Hehehehe. Very few kids like to do homework or revision! I guess we have to help make it less sian for them
My son does not like doing homework or revision. He loves to read and watch TV but he must do his homework, right?CayennePepper:
Actually, it may not be a productivity issue. Perhaps your ds was not very interested at what he was supposed to be doing at that point in time?
My dd is usually very nua and reluctant to do anything that involves pen and paper. As an experiment, I decided to schedule something she looks forward to right after homework time, on condition that she had to finish (perfectly) the work in half the usual time. She sat up amd zoomed through everything without fidgeting with anything. So i realised it was a motivation issue with her.
On occasion, I've also found that changing the study/work venue works quite well too. Maybe boredom sets in after staring at the same wall continuously!
Thank you for your advice. I think I got an idea on how to motivate him to do his work faster.
Sometimes I do my own work along with the kids. They like the 'support' and the everyone-working-together atmosphere. My friend shared that she does p5/6 math exam papers together with her kids, who feel less lonely since she struggles more than they do!
When my kids and I go for walks in parks, I surreptitiously lead the conversation to nature stuff that are also science topics in school. Like water cycle, plants etc. To my amazement, a lot of revision gets done verbally with zero pressure and without their realisation!
I realise we don't always have to sit down at a desk to study. For my dd that is a sure-fire way to shut down her focus... and since short bursts of concentration are all she can manage, i work around that lor.
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Any good recommendation for tuition center? I know its kinda late, but my chosen center turn out bad. Now gathering info panic mode
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Verysuperkiasu:
Thank you.
Congrats to your son having done well in PSLE last year.KSmom8:
My DS is the diligent and disciplined sort...well, most of time. Sometimes, he needs a push but most of time, there's no need to. Had to make sure he remained motivated till PSLE, and don't burnout. Thought a short holiday was a good idea but he was soooo against it. In the last few months before PSLE, my aim was not to add pressure at home, give lots of hugs and TLC, cook his fav food, lend a listening ear and getting him to bed early.
If your DS is already feeling stressed than I think a short break is good...something to look forward to when he is stressed and tired...also both you and him can recharge before the final preparation to PSLE.
Yup, I felt that breathlessness.... And helplessness.... And sudden panic. Don't worry, it'll pass. Don't let kids see. Just focus on what you can do...devise a strategy / plan for revision?.. monitor progress and focus on what he needs to do to get the A*?.. how to reduce the stress and bring a smile on his face? etc. Be there to help, support and encourage.
The whole 2012 PSLE episode has brought DS and I closer...it was difficult...but looking back, it was also memorable.
All the best for the 2013 PSLE!
Your ds reminds me of my ds who sat for his PSLE in 2011. But not for my dd who is sitting for PSLE this year. 
Totally different attitude.
People usually say when u hv two children, one will be very different from the other. That seems to be true....for my case.
Your dd sounds a lot like my ds2, too! My ds2 suffers from lack of motivation, poor attitude and likes to bargain / negotiate when it comes to written work. :faint: Very different from my ds1 at the same age.
Yes, it's also true for my case.
Btw, i think your DS and my ds1 are in the same school. See you at the parent networking thread. :hi5:
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