Rated S for Scary - About fengshui and supernatural stuff

[KS_me]

Wanted to ask those who believe in 佛学.

I heard friends told me that it’s always good to 超度our miscarriage babies. Not sure if anyone in this forum able to guide as in how to do this?

Thank you so much!

[ammonite]

My relatives do this. My impression is that you arrange this with the temple for a small sum of money. The temple will tell you what is needed. It is possible to do on behalf of others. My aunt did it for my grandmother because of some ‘disturbance’ in the house, and another for her daughter. You probably need the birth details of the mothers involved.

[KS_me]

Thanks Ammonite for the reply.

[ammonite]

U r welcomed it's a good thing to do, the temples are used to such requests. Recently I became aware of a lost presence in my home, I approached the nearby church for assistance (even though i do not follow any religion) and was informed that I could arrange for a special prayer for all souls since I didn't know its identity. The church lady told me it is very good for the departed. In any case, there is no harm in doing so.

[phtthp]

ammonite:

U r welcomed it's a good thing to do, the temples are used to such requests. Recently I became aware of a lost presence in my home, I approached the nearby church for assistance (even though i do not follow any religion) and was informed that I could arrange for a special prayer for all souls since I didn't know its identity. The church lady told me it is very good for the departed. In any case, there is no harm in doing so.

how you know she's a \"lost presence \" ?
you mean she \"talk\" to you, tell you she's lost down there ?
how she \"talk\" to you ?
give you a dream ?

[ammonite]

It’s not a she, it’s a he. A child, followed my kid around. I took my kid back to where they first saw each other, and also arranged with the church. It was not harmful.

[phtthp]

ammonite:

It's not a she, it's a he. A child, followed my kid around. I took my kid back to where they first saw each other, and also arranged with the church. It was not harmful.

how you know it's a \"he\" ?
did you see \"him\" with your third eye, or your child saw \"him\" sitting inside your house, since \"he\" followed your kid around ?
was \"he\" trying to play with your child, or request you to do something for \"him\" ?

[ammonite]

I didn’t see him, my dc did. He didn’t have any request - I think he was too young and was just clueless. DC said the boy was lonely and seemed to have no place to go to. He basically just lived in my house quietly, walked around, looked at my plants, watch my kids etc. DC gave me enough information for me to have a good idea where he was from so we took him back and arranged for a prayer session. Since then, DC has not seen the boy again. I was thinking of doing another prayer session for this little boy later this year - since he had stayed with me for a while, hahaha - so back to the miscarriaged babies thingy, I think it’s not a bad idea. It can’t hurt and can also help bring closure to the mothers. I had a strange experience the day I conceived this DC, so I do believe that souls come before birth even though I do not follow any religion.

[phtthp]

do you think "he" was a miscarriaged or an aborted baby boy, growing up feeling lonely in the nether world ?

[ammonite]

No lah, I’m very sure he was not. We identified where he was buried so he couldn’t be. The remains have been interred and many of the surrounding graves have been removed as well, so it was possible that he was "lost". In any case, I personally don’t think aborted/miscarriaged babies "should" be growing up lonely in the nether world, they should move on to whatever it should be - the next cycle? another plane? But sometimes we do meet lost souls for whatever reason, or someone feels troubled over a miscarriaged child, a prayer for them is good to help them onwards.