Rated S for Scary - About fengshui and supernatural stuff

[Gooby]

phtthp:

in the next world, Jerald will also grow up. 10 years from now, he won't remain as 3 years old toddler anymore. Not sure whether he'll be 13 years old - not sure how they count the age, in the other suffering world ...

Actually, I am confuse about this. I have heard stories about aborted babies or stillbirth that grow up together with the family as these spirit still lingers around the family. They are known as 婴灵.

But I have also read other stories that people repeatedly see the same child spirit for years. Which means to say the spirit never grows up....

So dunno which theory is correct. Some can grow up some remains the same...

[phtthp]

from young, i was told that in the nether world - babies also grow up.

just like in this world (on earth), children grow up into adults.

they too will grow up - down there.
won't remain as babies forever. (including aborted babies)

heard stories that for aborted babies -
some are angry at their parents for killing them in the womb, without giving them any chance to be born on earth, live as a human being with dignity. So they seek revenge on their parents, by creating mischief or trouble for them on earth, eg: haunt them in their dreams, or when they grow up \"Down there\" and reach marriagable age, they find their own boy friend / girl friend. Then they haunt their parents in dreams, to convey the message via dreams that they desire to get married. So parents to choose an auspicious date arrange for marriage to take place \"down there\". Buy two paper dolls with make up wearing Chinese traditional wedding costume (one paper doll is groom, another the bride). Burn some big paper house, let them live together. If parents don't help them get married, they keep on \"disturbing\" them. Disturb parents, disturb their siblings. Keep giving parents bad dream, as dream is the only realm of communication between two world - here and down there.

morale of lesson is:-
if you don't want trouble from nether world, don't anyhow abort babies if pregnant. There is repurcussion, consequence(s) .... don't play, play with abortion.
You may end up with no peace ...

http://www.kiasuparents.com/kiasu/forum/viewtopic.php?f=1&t=45527&start=30

[autumni76]

Gooby:

Authumni76, you have special talent. Can communicate with these special forces. What you saw was also hei bai wu chang. Lucky nothing happen. Seems like you have a guardian angel that is always protecting you leh.

but I am unable to do all these anymore since a few years ago. Maybe I'm too old for that now. LOL.
I can only tell if the air is stagnant and need some cleansing.

I forgot hei bai wu chang are actually gods, when the incidents happened.
The thing is, by right, my religion is such that we are freed from them. Maybe they are just updating their record books.... hm...

The guardian angel's really helpful. Used to help me spot exam questions, even for my 'O' levels. And helped me get into the diploma course which I like a lot.
But for the past few years, the angel's shut down almost completely. Perhaps I've been too busy working to even hear the advices given.

[autumni76]

Maybe the aborted babies are kept by those who use them as helpers or what will not grow up…

But those who moved to the other world do grow up.

There’ a temple at Tanjong Pagar that does a lot of those special marriages. It came out in the newspaper some years ago and the TVs also had programs on it.

[KS_me]

Wanted to ask those who believe in 佛学.

I heard friends told me that it’s always good to 超度our miscarriage babies. Not sure if anyone in this forum able to guide as in how to do this?

Thank you so much!

[ammonite]

My relatives do this. My impression is that you arrange this with the temple for a small sum of money. The temple will tell you what is needed. It is possible to do on behalf of others. My aunt did it for my grandmother because of some ‘disturbance’ in the house, and another for her daughter. You probably need the birth details of the mothers involved.

[KS_me]

Thanks Ammonite for the reply.

[ammonite]

U r welcomed it's a good thing to do, the temples are used to such requests. Recently I became aware of a lost presence in my home, I approached the nearby church for assistance (even though i do not follow any religion) and was informed that I could arrange for a special prayer for all souls since I didn't know its identity. The church lady told me it is very good for the departed. In any case, there is no harm in doing so.

[phtthp]

ammonite:

U r welcomed it's a good thing to do, the temples are used to such requests. Recently I became aware of a lost presence in my home, I approached the nearby church for assistance (even though i do not follow any religion) and was informed that I could arrange for a special prayer for all souls since I didn't know its identity. The church lady told me it is very good for the departed. In any case, there is no harm in doing so.

how you know she's a \"lost presence \" ?
you mean she \"talk\" to you, tell you she's lost down there ?
how she \"talk\" to you ?
give you a dream ?

[ammonite]

It’s not a she, it’s a he. A child, followed my kid around. I took my kid back to where they first saw each other, and also arranged with the church. It was not harmful.