In-law problems?
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call ur hb to buy beer??yes,he's gone too far.so ur hb nid to buy for him after work??
my MIL even funny,asked my hb to buy \"ice\" for her,she sprained her arm or something,after seeing doc,still nid to apply ice to soothe the pain.Asked my hb why can't she make her own ice??????or get her helper to make...just put water into the container n put inside the fridge..my hb hasn't taken his dinner,hv to rush to buy one big pack of ice n passed to her.My hb has a busy working day,my son waited for him to teach him maths after his dinner.Bcoz of my MIL childish behaviour :slapshead: ,my hb came bk late,hv dinner late n no time to teach my son,coz he oredi slept,after my hb settled his dinner & shower.
yesterday,we were fined bcoz of her.We went to buy some lights & put half an hour coupon(thinking just grab n go),she called & called & called,hb don't choice picked up the call,oredi told her busy,she still talking!!! :mad: came out fr. the shop saw the little paper on the windscreen,oredi knew kena fine. -
His father asked him to transfer money to his account.
The children give sufficient money monthly for utilities and food. Yet this 2 spend money meant for food on cigarettes and beer. They are under-nourished. The children cannot say anything as parents are unwilling to listen. When hubby (the favourite son) advised his mother to cut down on smoking, she curtly told him this, ‘Might as well tell me to jump down’. -
MIL also called when we went to Australia!!my hb asked her not to call for nothing, she asked my hb,\"u wanna severe our relationship,isn't it?\" :slapshead:
last time,she always called me,nearly got into accident,coz i was driving when she called.And she won't stop calling until u pick up the phone!!
hb got VERY angry,told her to STOP calling me.Do we wanna do until this stage?Nobody wanna,but we've no choice.Told her nicely,she won't listen.I hv not visit/talk to her fr 2yrs.Told my hb i nvr enjoy talking to her,coz she VERY sarcastics!.All her words got hidden meaning.She likes to lecture ppl also.
She is rich,no frd,relatives all hypocrite,her elder son n SIL don't bother her.They also hv communication prob despite staying together. -
it means there is no way ur MIL quit smoking.
my hb also my MIL favourite son! But she doesn’t aware that my hb very dread to receive her call. hb also dislikes going bk coz he hates seeing his SIL.
anyway,planning to migrate…
told myself that i muz nt like my MIL in future,it would only drive ur children away. -
vinegar:
If she wants to puff all day...by all means.it means there is no way ur MIL quit smoking.
my hb also my MIL favourite son! But she doesn't aware that my hb very dread to receive her call. hb also dislikes going bk coz he hates seeing his SIL.
anyway,planning to migrate...
told myself that i muz nt like my MIL in future,it would only drive ur children away. -
I suppose a lot of our MIL /SIL requests stems from the fact that they feel disconnected or even lonely. Usually those that are otherwise does not have an active lifestyle or social life. They make a lot of requests (or demands) that seems otherwise illogical. But in fact, it is a reflection of their loneliness and insecurity. Sometimes when I get angry with MIL / SIL I remind myself of this theory. Makes it easier to forgive and forget.
E.g. SIL refuses to pick up IT skills like copying files into CD - she gets my DH to do it everytime she wants to do this - middle of the night, weekends, etc. Taught her so many times for so many years but still… She also refuses to decouple her mobile phone bill from my husband’s bill, and wants my husband to pay. She makes more than DH - - but this is like a "connection" that she refuses to change.
MIL gets my husband to read her bills and mails (but the highly educated SIL lives with her! and she is totally capable or reading!). They also get my husband to fix everything in the house (not that he is even good at it)… but really, they just want to feel that DH is still around, and still part of them. -
ur SIL is very dependent on ur hb.
agree wf u that this is sign of their insecurity n loneliness.So they seek attn to fulfill their needs.If they’ve active social lives & purpose in life,for e.g. volunteer in community,they r able to divert their attn n energy somewhere.
My MIL doesn’t hv to worry for $$ n hsework. She has all the things to be taken care of.Thus, her focus is to find out what we’re doing n tries to interfere.yes,she is a control freak n my hb always says this is her nature n i’ve to accept.
The irritating part is my hb shares everything wf her! I told him off everytime. Even irritated him by telling him that ur mum treats u like daughter than son! -
AdonciaTang:
I have 3 boys and if anyone starts asking me to try for a girl, I will tell them it's too late as I have officially closed my factory and it is very expensive to reopen it.... :heresmyfish:
LOL. They have nth better to do. I have 2 sons as most of you know and yet I was targeted as not having a daughter. I felt so sad whenever they ask me why dont try for the third one to have a girl. And now that I wan to adopt, I can hear them talking and saying that I cant conceive and so onjanet_lee88:
Actually, most people do not understand it is the MAN who provides the Y chromosome to have that precious son. I have 2 (a girl and a boy...no offence to anyone) and yet get bothered with 'what about a 3rd one?'
These people really have nothing to talk about...so pathetic. -
I have a girl and a boy. Whenever pple ask me why not have another or another girl and another boy. I tell them I want but both DH and my parts not working properly, what to do. It will usually end with them saying aiyah, ok lah, 2 oredi summore 1 of each gender very good oredi.
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Funz:
I have a girl and a boy. Whenever pple ask me why not have another or another girl and another boy. I tell them I want but both DH and my parts not working properly, what to do. It will usually end with them saying aiyah, ok lah, 2 oredi summore 1 of each gender very good oredi.
I have a girl going to be 9, and a boy who just turned 13. Another one??? :dowan: factory certified closed. My SIL just gave birth...the idea of sleepless nights, jabs and fever, teething pain, baby refusing to sleep and the growing up pains all over again is scary. Sorry, no to $8000.
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