桃花谈

[insider]

What is a 桃花 (cherry blossom)?


In the minds of most people, it refers to the opposite gender; meaning if one is a male, his 桃花 will be the female and if one is a female, her 桃花 will be the male.

桃花 in general sense refers to meeting someone who is likely to be one’s girlfriend/boyfriend or spouse. So when people teasing one is having 桃花运, it means that someone is well-liked by the opposite gender or have one/many suitor/s.

桃花 has a wider meaning than the general interpretation. It refers to whether someone has ‘opposite gender attraction’ (异性缘), not restricted to only opposite gender that are involved in matters of the heart. Eg, a man well liked in the office by his female boss and colleagues or a woman well liked by her male boss and male colleagues = relatively strong 桃花运.

The number of 桃花 stars shinning directly on a person and the type of 桃花 has the following implications on that person.

For example, for those who are Horses next year will have many 桃花 appearing throughout the year.

For those who are singles, they have a high chance of meeting their 真名天子.

For those who are married, they may meet seduction from 小三 or they become 小三.

Other than that, Horses can meet opposite gender who are coming as 贵人 or 小人.

So when we say ‘got many 桃花 next year’, it means that we have to pay attention to the opposite gender who will be bringing us luck or causing us harm (meaning same gender will not bring us much benefit or doing us harm). Smaller桃花 star implies pregnancy (legitimate or non-legitimate one).

Good 桃花 = 正桃花 – can bring one happiness and luck, can marry, can do business, can bring in money, etc

Bad 桃花 = 烂桃花 – can bring disasters (eg Michael Palmer, etc), can break hearts, can get molested, can 人财两失, can "powdered body crushed bones", etc. I ever wrote a piece on I was molested by a best friend’s brother in law few years back. That was a 烂桃花 that was suddenly shining above me that had attracted this unnecessary attention (I am never a ‘vain’ person and to have experienced someone close molesting at that kind of matured age was something really bizarre).

Super Bad 桃花 – can become prostitutes, can get raped (by strangers or relatives), can murder / kill or be murdered / killed, etc. Men or women having these Super Bad 桃花 may equate high sexual drive, with the men go womanising / raping girls; and women go around sleeping with men (/raping men? heeheehee…)

So 桃花 is not necessary good or bad; it has to depend on which 桃花 star is that and what kind of impact the surrounding stars is casting on the 桃花 star. Heard of 红鸾星动？ Well, 红鸾星 is a 正桃花 star that if it is shining brightly (without other major bad stars hindering) = marriage.

To be continued… (will elaborate more on 桃花 along with my niece’s case)

[ImMeeMee]

精彩 。。。

[SAHM_TAN]

Thank you insider for the explanation. I didn’t know 桃花 has such wide implications. It’s most interesting.

[toddles]

thanks for sharing the whole 来龙去脉。。。waiting for the moral of the story... or learning points (already there are quite a few!)

[SAHM_TAN]

Yes, has been reflecting on some pts

[Joule]

I do not believe in fortune telling nor do I want to believe.


I think ‘cherry blossoms luck’ or ‘cherry blossoms’ are not very good to have.

Still, I have heard of some people who have this kind of ‘hard luck’ and it goes across 2-3 generations!

man only can have 1 wife, wife can only have 1 husband

better pray to the maker to give you a good one

no point looking at the grass outside and you neglect your own lawn

[Funz]

Interesting, waiting to learn more. I am not one who believe in fengshui or fortune telling but it is always interesting to read or hear about it.


I remember quite some time back Insider shared about how everyone is born in this world with a bucket of wealth. Each one a different size. You will not be able to accumulate wealth beyond the size of the bucket. So either you spend the excess yourself or it will somehow be spent for you. At least that was what I understood from what she shared.

At that time, I had a staff who was going through a lot of issues personally. She was lamenting about how each time she managed to save up some money, something will happen that will empty her bank account. I told her about what Insider shared and we kinda mused over it. But another similar incident happened when she received her bonus. We both looked at each other and I told her the next time you get excess cash, put it in your son’s account. She has been doing that since. Maintaining only the amount that is comfortable for her daily needs and the rest, buy insurance or put them in her son’s account.

Haha. Still find it interesting.

[hquek]

a friend told me about the bucket of wealth thingy also, and shared with me her computations on some people we knew…sounds convincing. But so far, I’ve never asked her to calculate for me/my kids. I think I rather die not knowing, than sit and fret if my bucket is too small or too holey.


Thanks insider for coming back and sharing this with us. I’m also reflecting on some of the pointers.

[insider]

Haha, Funz and Hquek joining in the fun. Welcome!


Wow Funz still can remember some of my ‘Money Bowl Theory’!

Actually whether the bucket is big or small doesnt really matter much. For someone with a smaller bucket, it may mean that that someone knows how to spend his/her money and enjoying life (if his/her bucket is destined to be a small one to begin with, then no point trying to accumulate wealth).

For someone with a big bucket, that someone may have to keep working and working (and the bank number will be keep going up and up coz the bucket is big enough!) and perhaps hold the money too tightly and dont know how to spend = poor life coz what is the point of having money but dont spend it = 皇帝命、乞丐身. I have seen enough this kind of rich but ‘one hair also cannot pluck’ people. heeheehee…

OK, CNY is a good time to talk about Money but now I going back to my Cherry Blossom first…

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My key objective of looking into niece’s Life Plate is to ascertain her main star. I am hoping to see a more stable star, such as mine which is a very stable one. If she has a stable star, then I will have a higher chance of changing her first and then use her to change her mum.

Now, I landed myself with two Super 桃花 stars and I went into deep emmm…. moments.

Other than the 桃花 characteristics of her two main stars, some of her character traits include:

-\tstubborn
-\tconceited
-\tdifficult o satisfy
-\tuses heart more than brain to make decision

(for those who can read Chinese: 廉贞是一颗欲望强烈、死心眼的星曜，不太重视理性，却非常重感情，只是他的情感多半都埋藏在内心深处，只有累积到一定程度才会爆发……)

Above just a small part of her overall character.

So, above traits = I don’t have a high chance of success rate of working with her and that means I have to think of how to work on my sister. Usually it is easier to work with adults than with child as adults are supposed to be more stable and more matured than child, but well, we all know how some adults can be (that can be more childish than children at times!)

I went to look at her Spouse Field. It shows her spouse will be someone who is hot-tempered, an MCP.

She runs a high chance of marrying young and she is likely to divorce.

All these set me sitting up straight to think how to help her. I see all the cause and effect linked among my sister, my niece, my niece’s future family (niece’s kids incl), etc, that if no one bothers to try to change something, it will become a vicious cycle that many will suffer.

To be continued… (the ‘architecture’ of my rescue plan. Pls bear with me for the small parts coz it is not easy to piece things together so that the picture can be clearer for readers to understand more completely.)

[frusparents]

Funz:

At that time, I had a staff who was going through a lot of issues personally. She was lamenting about how each time she managed to save up some money, something will happen that will empty her bank account. I told her about what Insider shared and we kinda mused over it. But another similar incident happened when she received her bonus. We both looked at each other and I told her the next time you get excess cash, put it in your son's account. She has been doing that since. Maintaining only the amount that is comfortable for her daily needs and the rest, buy insurance or put them in her son's account.

:offtopic:
What if putting into sons' accounts oso doesn't work? meaning after a while, something happens and the money has to be withdrawn from sons' accounts to \"save\" the situation?

Any methods to \"keep the money safe\"? :scratchhead: