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      sleepy
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      janet_lee88:
      sleepy:

      [quote=\"janet_lee88\"]
      Cold war doesn't help. I do not feel better but I just can't bring myself to forget it.

      What happened that made you so mad?

      He blasted saying I should have stayed at home instead of going over mum's place, to let son revise for Math test. Son was actually waiting for him to revise...we reached home at 8+, what's the problem ? Basically he was just waiting to find fault.[/quote] :hugs:

      Okay understand why you are mad. You don't feel appreciated.

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        Sorry to rant…but honestly, we don’t go over to mum’s place everyday since we started tingkat dinner. Bloody hell, it was only 8+ when we reached home, what the hell was he trying to prove by shouting at me in the car ? Kids got a shock of their lives. If he thinks I will let him off so easily, dream on.

        It’s fun to wash his towel without putting a clean one on the hook. It’s fun to leave some shirts not ironed. After bathing, I switched off the heater even though he hasn’t bathed yet.

        Maybe I should continue to wash his towel everyday without putting a clean one back. After kids and I have finished eating, I will put the remaining food in the fridge…when he returns, he has to heat it up.

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          piyobaby
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          When I am mad at him wif him acting oblivious to the situation, keep quiet & pretending nothing is wrong, I will tell him to find his own dinner and I will cooked for myself & son only. So die die dinner time he just have to open his golden mouth to talk to mi...... :imcool:

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            piyobaby:
            When I am mad at him wif him acting oblivious to the situation, keep quiet & pretending nothing is wrong, I will tell him to find his own dinner and I will cooked for myself & son only. So die die dinner time he just have to open his golden mouth to talk to mi...... :imcool:

            He apologized via SMS bcos he knows I will not pick phone.
            Trying to get daughter to help him...but it is futile. Let him go so easily, he will not learn. Now very good...continue to work lah...see if he can do so with peace of mind. No dinner for him 2night. Will bring tingkat food over to mum's place...and bring home washed containers without food...Especially when he comes back thinking there is food...hahaha.

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              piyobaby
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              janet_lee88:
              piyobaby:

              When I am mad at him wif him acting oblivious to the situation, keep quiet & pretending nothing is wrong, I will tell him to find his own dinner and I will cooked for myself & son only. So die die dinner time he just have to open his golden mouth to talk to mi...... :imcool:


              He apologized via SMS bcos he knows I will not pick phone.
              Trying to get daughter to help him...but it is futile. Let him go so easily, he will not learn. Now very good...continue to work lah...see if he can do so with peace of mind. No dinner for him 2night. Will bring tingkat food over to mum's place...and bring home washed containers without food...Especially when he comes back thinking there is food...hahaha.

              At least he tried various ways to appease ur anger....doubt mine will :roll:

              Place fast food delivery brochures on the dining table for him?! :evil:

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                He has to appease my anger...kids told him HE was wrong. That's the wonderful thing. Even the kids know he was wrong when he barked like a bloody mad dog in the car. Daughter told him to settle problem himself :rotflmao:

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                  piyobaby
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                  Cool daughter you have there! :salute:

                  Muz learn a trick or two for my kids in the near future..... 😉

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                    janet88
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                    piyobaby:
                    Cool daughter you have there! :salute:

                    Muz learn a trick or two for my kids in the near future..... 😉
                    Just realized this PLUS point for once, being a SAHM.
                    Kids know what I do...they also know their schedule everyday.
                    So when they heard that mad dog barking, they will be on my side.

                    Yesterday afternoon, kids told me about this conversation in the morning when he sent them to school.
                    Mad dog: is it my fault?
                    Daughter: of course it is your fault.
                    Son: you are the one teaching Math...so I waited for you to come back.
                    Daughter: since you shouted and it's your fault, you settle own problem.
                    Mad dog: how?
                    Daughter: don't know. Think.

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                      piyobaby
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                      Well done kiddos! :rahrah: :rahrah: :rahrah:

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                        Nihauma
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                        janet_lee88:
                        piyobaby:

                        Cool daughter you have there! :salute:

                        Muz learn a trick or two for my kids in the near future..... 😉

                        Just realized this PLUS point for once, being a SAHM.
                        Kids know what I do...they also know their schedule everyday.
                        So when they heard that mad dog barking, they will be on my side.

                        Yesterday afternoon, kids told me about this conversation in the morning when he sent them to school.
                        Mad dog: is it my fault?
                        Daughter: of course it is your fault.
                        Son: you are the one teaching Math...so I waited for you to come back.
                        Daughter: since you shouted and it's your fault, you settle own problem.
                        Mad dog: how?
                        Daughter: don't know. Think.

                        this is priceless...so funny...i am sure your heart liang liang a bit liao...

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