don't really know how to talk to wife

[buds]

Sun_2010:

Joule:

[quote=\"buds\"]A very poor man lived with his wife.


One day, his wife, who had very long hair asked him to buy her a comb for her hair to grow well and to be well-groomed.

The man felt very sorry and said no. He explained that he did not even have enough money to fix the strap of his watch he had just broken.

She did not insist on her request.

The man went to work and passed by a watch shop, sold his damaged watch at a low price and went to buy a comb for his wife.

He came home in the evening with the comb in his hand ready to give to his wife.

He was surprised when he saw his wife with a very short hair cut.

She had sold her hair and was holding a new watch band.

Tears flowed simultaneously from their eyes, not for the futility of their actions, but for the reciprocity of their love.

MORAL : To love is nothing, to be loved is something but to love and to be loved by the one you love, that is EVERYTHING. Never take love for granted.

that is very nice story

and sad

see la. never assume.

now waste money

And no Joule- its not sad , its about love.
When I read this as a teenager , i too felt it was sheer waste. Argued with my teacher too.
But now , after being married , I understand the significance.
When you willing give up your prized possession to bring joy to to the one you love - without feeling martryed - that is what love is all about. [/quote]
Ohh Sun! :please:

You goddit! http://www.freesmileys.org/smileys.php

For the rest of you..

Comprehension : FAIL! :spank:

Read between the lines! :slapshead:

Dun be lazy! :frustrated:

Marriage needs work you know..

[Jennifer]

buds:

Marriage needs work you know..

Yes, HARD work, harder than my housework

[sleepy]

Jennifer:

buds:

Marriage needs work you know..

Yes, HARD work, harder than my housework

Have you started 嗲ing him ?
No effect huh?

[Jennifer]

sleepy:

Jennifer:

[quote=\"buds\"]Marriage needs work you know..

Yes, HARD work, harder than my housework

Have you started 嗲ing him ?
No effect huh?[/quote]I have stopped talking to him.

Sorri folks, I sms, skype or viber him which he can respond at his convenience.

[TheAnswer]

Jennifer:

I have stopped talking to him

Try to trash things out?

[ammonite]

Actually hard work still need two hands to clap. One must draw the line somehow.


Any effect after not talking to him? If no effect, should consider dressing up and going out more. Do the things you like. And build up your finances.

[Jennifer]

TheAnswer:

Jennifer:

I have stopped talking to him

Try to trash things out?

Nah.

He is very busy working on the marketing materials for a BIG exhibition in April in Germany.

Can see the sign DO NOT DISTURB flashing above him.

My younger boy 小鸟不知 catapult, kena scolded by his papa lor.

[Jennifer]

ammonite:

should consider dressing up and going out more.

Unfortunately, this is not my style.

[Jennifer]

I had a talk with MIl ytd.


FIL was a workaholic, left the house early morning and back at night. MIL was left alone with 3 children n housework.

Hm, so this is the family culture.

Definitely can visual hubby stepping into those shoes.

Me can follow in MIL’s footsteps?

[vinegar]

perhaps add a little humour in the conversation?


my dh is quite workaholic.I rather he remains like this.why? coz if he’s free,he likes to do women stuff…for e.g. listen to my MIL grumble,entertain my MIL unwanted attn,interfere the way i do hsework or cook…

recently,he said he’s going to resign…I’ve mixed feelings.I’ve one more person to help me to ferry the kiddo,but he also gives me another set of probs.Coz if he stays at home,i cannot rest peacefully,my MIL calls VERY OFTEN.Imagine my dh has to entertain her calls while teaching the kiddo.

i rather he works…