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[Windflower]

Jedamum, so your elder son is going P1 in another few months' time? You must be very excited.


Re: SAHM
Definitely I would choose to have a secondborn, nothing can be compared to cuddling your little one in your arms. Just like you, I am not opened to other alternatives in caring for my children, that explains why I gave up my job ten years ago. I would rather we struggling on a single income than missing out the precious moments with my children. You have indeed made a right choice which you would never ever regret.

[sunflower]

Hi Windflower, your name’s quite close to mine…except I follow the sun but you follow the wind!


Welcome to KSP!

[Windflower]

sunflower:

Hi Windflower, your name’s quite close to mine…except I follow the sun but you follow the wind!


Welcome to KSP!

Thanks, sunflower. We're just like sisters :lol:, actually I chose this username based on a song called \"Windflowers\".

[jedamum]

Windflower,


Yes, it's all very exciting....next week orientation...mad rush to buy books and such...i am looking forward to that.

I don't believe in giving just my one child everything in the world in terms of the best expensive enrichment, best toys, my love and all of my time. I believe that sharing such privileges (though may not be the best) with one more of my child will make the firstborn and me a better person. But i'll stop at 2 now.

[sunflower]

Windflower:

sunflower:

Hi Windflower, your name’s quite close to mine…except I follow the sun but you follow the wind!


Welcome to KSP!

Thanks, sunflower. We're just like sisters :lol:, actually I chose this username based on a song called \"Windflowers\".

You must have really liked the song “Windflower” to use the name. I must be a real “sua ku” to not have heard of the song before. Is it a Chinese song? If it is, I suppose it’s literally translated as “feng1 zhi1 Hua1” ?

Ha, ha… our children’s ages are quite close too…my elder girl is 1 yr older than your boy, and my younger girl is 1 yr younger than yours.

[Windflower]

Yes, I quite like the song and I like sunflowers too. Anyway it is an English song sang by Chy'i, a Chinese Taiwanese singer. Wow, your two girls' age gap is seven years apart!

[sunflower]

I’ve heard of Chy’i before but am not familiar with her English songs.


Oh yes, wide age gap between my 2 girls. Actually wanted to stop at one (was FTWM then) but my elder girl wanted a sibling. We thought can consider as she would be old enough to take care of herself and could perhaps help out with the 2nd one. :lol: As a result of having no.2, became a SAHM…

[Windflower]

sunflower:

I’ve heard of Chy’i before but am not familiar with her English songs.


Oh yes, wide age gap between my 2 girls. Actually wanted to stop at one (was FTWM then) but my elder girl wanted a sibling. We thought can consider as she would be old enough to take care of herself and could perhaps help out with the 2nd one. :lol: As a result of having no.2, became a SAHM…

I have a few of her English albums, very nice. Even my girl also knows how to appreciate the songs. One night before she slept, she told me, \"Mummy, I want to listen to the songs 'Send In The Clowns' and 'Like A Hero'.\" :shock:

So you also gave up your job due to the 2nd child, just like jedamum. Your elder girl is so lucky to have a little sister to play with, I think she sure loves her very much.

[jedamum]

sunflower:

Actually wanted to stop at one (was FTWM then) but my elder girl wanted a sibling.

Although i never had the intention to stop at one, my elder boy 'hasten' the process a bit by throwing tantrum and demanding that we give him a sibling. :oops: In a way, that helps as he dotes on his bro a lot...even when his bro hit him or dismantle his toys, he, though upset, is never angry at him (at least for now). He'll get angry at me instead...for failing to prevent the 'disaster'. :roll:

[Windflower]

jedamum:

sunflower:

Actually wanted to stop at one (was FTWM then) but my elder girl wanted a sibling.

Although i never had the intention to stop at one, my elder boy 'hasten' the process a bit by throwing tantrum and demanding that we give him a sibling. :oops: In a way, that helps as he dotes on his bro a lot...even when his bro hit him or dismantle his toys, he, though upset, is never angry at him (at least for now). He'll get angry at me instead...for failing to prevent the 'disaster'. :roll:

Your elder boy is so cute and loving. My boy could still tolerate his sister if she hits him, however, if she snatches or breaks his things, he would be super mad and starts to scream and shout at her. :x