No Problem is problem

[janet88]

Hi buds,

There will always be brats…hahaha but as they grow, I will make them do housework like washing bowls and helping with cleaning/tidying up. Then my son will help out with housework when he gets married in future…cannot repeat the mistake his paternal grandmother made with her precious sons.

[corneyAmber]

Sounds like 3boys and his wife will be Mr and Mrs Lee "Model couple of the century" number 2. thumbs up

[Angelight]

Yes, yes, I totally agree. Most if not all daughters have a special place in daddies' hearts. DD is a good example. Not only does DH dote on her, even my FIL also loves and dotes on her like the daughter he never has.

Eagle-Ladybird:

aiya, you all should learn from my daugther. She's so good in having me in her pocket, that my wife openly complains about it - that I have double-standard, that she can do no wrong, and that daddy will do anything for her, and so on . . . .

but then, it's known that daughters have a special place in daddies's heart, right ?

[dunnoleh]

Angelight:

Yes, yes, I totally agree. Most if not all daughters have a special place in daddies' hearts. DD is a good example. Not only does DH dote on her, even my FIL also loves and dotes on her like the daughter he never has. ...

so true! both my daughters have me wrapped around their pinkies. :oops:

if only mummies can do this, \"tender grass\" out there will surely wither and die.
unfortunately, that is not the case,
as they can be seen growing all over the place in Singapore these days.

[3Boys]

Hi buds,

no lah, definitely not model couple. We both have our faults, but we are blessed with supportive parents who help cover child-minding, and thankfully are financially stable. Both these elements help a lot.

Certainly we have had our disputes and occasions of deep freeze, but very very very few that have escalated to tears or shouting. Deep down, I love my wife intensely and I kinda think she feels the same way, and we ALWAYS make time for each other, it just seems natural. One thing we have promised each other is never to take each other for granted.

All cliches I know, but they apply. I can only give advice from my heart on this, which is that you have to place your spouse FIRST. The mum is more at risk of becoming embroiled in 24/7 child-minding, which in my book is a big mistake and possibly one of the worst things you can do for your family.

[Angelight]

Hi dunnoleh,


Is it becos men like women/girls who know how to \"sa jiao\", so those wives who can \"sa jiao\" to their hubbies tend to have their hubbies wrapped around their pinkies?

dunnoleh:

Angelight:

Yes, yes, I totally agree. Most if not all daughters have a special place in daddies' hearts. DD is a good example. Not only does DH dote on her, even my FIL also loves and dotes on her like the daughter he never has. ...

so true! both my daughters have me wrapped around their pinkies. :oops:

if only mummies can do this, \"tender grass\" out there will surely wither and die.
unfortunately, that is not the case,
as they can be seen growing all over the place in Singapore these days.

[dunnoleh]

Angelight:

Hi dunnoleh,


Is it becos men like women/girls who know how to \"sa jiao\", so those wives who can \"sa jiao\" to their hubbies tend to have their hubbies wrapped around their pinkies?

I dunnoleh! :lol: :lol: :lol:

I'd surrender unconditionally to my daughters' \"sa jiao\" , just like to DW 20+ years ago.

I think it is an integral component of the female DNA, programmed to execute from the age of 2, right?

[duriz]

dunnoleh:

Angelight:

Yes, yes, I totally agree. Most if not all daughters have a special place in daddies' hearts. DD is a good example. Not only does DH dote on her, even my FIL also loves and dotes on her like the daughter he never has. ...

so true! both my daughters have me wrapped around their pinkies. :oops:

Me three.
DD has DH and FIL wrapped around her chubby fingers, tight tight.
Both families have been living in banana plantations for 24+ years until DD, a precious gem of the female persuasion popped!
For now, she runs the show :love:

[duriz]

dunnoleh:

I think it is an integral component of the female DNA, programmed to execute from the age of 2, right?

I think earlier than the age of 2, Daddy dunnoleh.
When DH set his eyes on DD at the minute of her birth, he cried.
Then I knew, this man finished liao, his little girl has completely taken over his heart and mind.
Heng still got some space for me :oops:

[dunnoleh]

duriz:

dunnoleh:

I think it is an integral component of the female DNA, programmed to execute from the age of 2, right?

I think earlier than the age of 2, Daddy dunnoleh.
When DH set his eyes on DD at the minute of her birth, he cried.
Then I knew, this man finished liao, his little girl has completely taken over his heart and mind.
Heng still got some space for me :oops:

hahahahaa.... :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

and I know exactly what you are talking about. :oops: