In-law problems?

[buds]

EatNonStop:

I guess depends on circumstances..if small matters to hubby, he will ask me not to dwell about it and \"give way\" since mil already old and to appreciate her help with kids and household stuff....then no choice lor...however, small matters wil accumulate to \"big matter\", then hubby will come in \"automatic\" to \"tell his mother off\" before issues turn sour. :lol:

You are still lucky, girl!

My hubs would and actually has in fact left all issues to turn sour..
Has soured actually.. and that goes for between me and MIL and
also between me & him for a good 10 years we had to be under
one roof.

Each time reflections of the past conjure up in mind, i try to brush
it off telling myself to live and let live for life is short and that now
i have managed to get my own crib and lotsa personal space, i
shud not be grudging..

But still... :idea:

It's tension releasing to come here once in a while and gripe. :lol:

Let go of old steam to prepare for new steam..

[buds]

EatNonStop:

[quote]I'm sure you meant boobs..


For if you meant my boobs with my pair of matching boots...

Aaahh... then that's a different kinky story and best for another uhmm..
more private thread.

Yes, I do mean boobs....oh, there is also a pair of boots too....cant stop laughing :rotflmao:[/quote]Aah! :rubhands:

But of course.. :evil:

Since the cosplay comes in a set.

[janet88]

Nebbermind:

janet_lee88:

You lucky guy. My hubby's sister has no qualms opening my drawers, fridge and cupboards to examine contents. She is NOT welcomed in my house.

but whatever for??!! :? I don't even like it when my kids goes into our drawers...not like we have any secrets but simply coz they have no business there.

Precisely, what biz does she have opening my fridge and cupboards ?
Most sickening part is calling HER mother and telling her ? What the hell...is she sent to my house to be a spy ?

[Pan8888]

Hey everyone out there,


hope u all can advise abit.
mil is a gambler, now in debt and say want to kick the habit.
DH suggest that she take care of DS so she wont go gambling.
do u all think i should take the risk?
:?:

[autumnbronze]

Nebbermind:

buds:

... i

do believe i am busier with the kind of generation our children
are in as compared to the auto-run children we were back then
during their time mothering us... that goes for SAHMs, PTWM &
FTWMs as a whole.

and I thought it was 'bustier' until I read the rest of the sentence....

Gotta be that AVATAR!!! :oops:

:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:

[jtoh]

janet_lee88:

Nebbermind:

Hmmm....looks like I'm the blessed few whose wife has no problem with mom...and even good friend with my sis!!! :celebrate:

You lucky guy. My hubby's sister has no qualms opening my drawers, fridge and cupboards to examine contents. She is NOT welcomed in my house.

No manners! Do you tell her off?

[jtoh]

cwc:

Wah, opening people's drawers, fridge etc.....really no manners leh. Irritating.


Actually, before my MIL shift in she did that too. She would complain to my DH \"Your wife very lazy and untidy. Her things not properly kept and clothes untidy\" :!: Now that she's with us, initially I found her in my room opening my cupboard still.....seems lesser now. But just not too long ago, my hubby was teasing me about not enough working clothes, immediately she was in my room opening my wardrobe and telling DH there's a lot of unironed clothes hanging over at the other room. :x ACE

Can you tell her your room is off limits to her? So rude!

[jtoh]

buds:

janet_lee88:

If hubby doesn't step in, then his wife will continue to get jelak jelak with his mother. Men are smart, they won't want to be sandwiched in between. My hubby is one. He cannot handle his mother.

Errr babe.. what's \"jelak-jelak\"? Please enlighten me. :please:

Men are smart?

Mine is not. He just doesn't want to handle his mother.

In fact... He won't handle his mother.

If you guys recall, his mom will always be his number one... well, at least
in my case. :roll: Soo... that's already a full stop sentence for me. I can
talk to the hand for any conflicts whatsoever. I had to fend for myself.

In his stance, his mother will never have anything for him to handle.

However, after my girls saw how i was treated by MIL... they were always
ready to stand up for me in any case they see where i may have been
wronged. There was one occasion where we were informed they were
coming when we first shifted into our new place... my DD2 came to me
and whispered, \"Don't worry mom.. i'm here for you.. if anything.. \"I\"
will be here to stand up for you if daddy doesn't.. cause i understand..

Aaaww... :please:

But i told her it's fine and i'm fine.. that she shouldn't need to help me
fight my adult battles. I also don't want her to incur the wrath of her
father for being a little meddler. But still thanks for the thought and
definitely; the understanding.. While she went on to entertain the
guests, she'd gimme a wink once in awhile as if just to gimme that
tinkle that she's around and that she is constantly watching & listening
and yes... looking out for me.

So sweet! How old's your dd?

[janet88]

Ok, just found out that they will be coming back this month…claim they miss family…what a joke. Anyway, it seems they won’t be going to US again. 3 months passed exceptionally fast. Miss family…more like fed up of cooking every meal.

[EatNonStop]

janet_lee88 wrote : [quote]Ok, just found out that they will be coming back this month...claim they miss family...what a joke. Anyway, it seems they won't be going to US again. 3 months passed exceptionally fast. Miss family...more like fed up of cooking every meal. [/quote]
Oh dear, gonna lose your past 3 mths freedom !!