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      fifiyeo
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      Oh mine is daughters can throw tantrums so does their favourite DIL. In fact favourite DIL got more power cos they can’t say her and will put up with any demands.

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        janet88
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        fifiyeo:
        Oh mine is daughters can throw tantrums so does their favourite DIL. In fact favourite DIL got more power cos they can't say her and will put up with any demands.

        The daughter always throws tantrums.
        I couldn't be bothered to do so as I will lose miserably.

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          SAHM Chew
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          janet_lee88:
          fifiyeo:

          Oh mine is daughters can throw tantrums so does their favourite DIL. In fact favourite DIL got more power cos they can't say her and will put up with any demands.


          The daughter always throws tantrums.
          I couldn't be bothered to do so as I will lose miserably.

          I cannot be bothered with PIL n SIL now even though we stay together. Just do my own things n they do their own things.

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            janet88
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            SAHM Chew:
            janet_lee88:

            [quote=\"fifiyeo\"]Oh mine is daughters can throw tantrums so does their favourite DIL. In fact favourite DIL got more power cos they can't say her and will put up with any demands.


            The daughter always throws tantrums.
            I couldn't be bothered to do so as I will lose miserably.

            I cannot be bothered with PIL n SIL now even though we stay together. Just do my own things n they do their own things.[/quote]Wow, how do you do that? Staying together and yet have freedom to do own things. If I have to face them for 2 hours, my BP will shoot, especially with that spoilt brat daughter.

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              SAHM Chew
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              janet_lee88:

              Wow, how do you do that? Staying together and yet have freedom to do own things. If I have to face them for 2 hours, my BP will shoot, especially with that spoilt brat daughter.
              I just stay in my room :rahrah:

              Even if we see each other, we just ignore each other. I am the bad DIL. But i cannot be bothered already. If not, i will have high BP everyday. And die earlier.

              I am practising see no evil, hear no evil. :rotflmao: just stayed in my room n watch my drama..... Better to have drama at home.

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                buds
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                I don't need more drama.. Ohmmm... Ohmmm...
                I don't need more drama..Ohmmmm... Ohmmm...
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                http://www.easyfreesmileys.com/facebook-smileys.htmlSpeak no evil, see no evil, hear no evil. http://www.easyfreesmileys.com/facebook-smileys.html

                I'm a good DIL.http://www.freesmileys.org/smileys.php

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                  Sunflower03
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                  SAHM Chew:
                  janet_lee88:


                  Wow, how do you do that? Staying together and yet have freedom to do own things. If I have to face them for 2 hours, my BP will shoot, especially with that spoilt brat daughter.

                  I just stay in my room :rahrah:

                  Even if we see each other, we just ignore each other. I am the bad DIL. But i cannot be bothered already. If not, i will have high BP everyday. And die earlier.

                  I am practising see no evil, hear no evil.
                  :rotflmao: just stayed in my room n watch my drama..... Better to have drama at home.

                  But will u still help in household chores? The other DIL of my mil, stay in her room n never help to do the chores. My mil keep grumble abt her.

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                    Sunflower03
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                    SAHM Chew:
                    janet_lee88:


                    Wow, how do you do that? Staying together and yet have freedom to do own things. If I have to face them for 2 hours, my BP will shoot, especially with that spoilt brat daughter.

                    I just stay in my room :rahrah:

                    Even if we see each other, we just ignore each other. I am the bad DIL. But i cannot be bothered already. If not, i will have high BP everyday. And die earlier.

                    I am practising see no evil, hear no evil.
                    :rotflmao: just stayed in my room n watch my drama..... Better to have drama at home.

                    But will u still help in household chores? The other DIL of my mil, stay in her room n never help to do the chores. My mil keep grumble abt her.

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                      SAHM Chew
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                      I will do my own chores, eg, clean up the kitchen after i cooked. My PIL do not eat the food i cooked and they packet everyday. I washed the clothes for myself n DH n 3 kids, iron our own clothes. Basically, we are living together, but not sharing household chores. We do our own chores. Anyway, i do not sit in living room n chit chat n watch tv, n my kids do not stay in living room too. Nothing in the living room belongs to us, so i do not maintain it too, as i do not want to mess or tidy up their things.


                      We are basically using our own area in the hse. As long as i keep my area clean, the rest, i do not bother. :rotflmao: if not, there are too many things that will shoot my bp up.

                      Sunflower03:
                      SAHM Chew:

                      [quote=\"janet_lee88\"]Wow, how do you do that? Staying together and yet have freedom to do own things. If I have to face them for 2 hours, my BP will shoot, especially with that spoilt brat daughter.

                      I just stay in my room :rahrah:

                      Even if we see each other, we just ignore each other. I am the bad DIL. But i cannot be bothered already. If not, i will have high BP everyday. And die earlier.

                      I am practising see no evil, hear no evil.
                      :rotflmao: just stayed in my room n watch my drama..... Better to have drama at home.

                      But will u still help in household chores? The other DIL of my mil, stay in her room n never help to do the chores. My mil keep grumble abt her.[/quote]

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                        janet88
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                        SAHM Chew,

                        It must really take a lot of patience and tolerance to do what you are doing. Stay under same roof and yet living separate lives. :salute:
                        You wash clothes and cook. They packet own food.

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