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    In-law problems?

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    • J Offline
      janet88
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      I will never forget how FIL supported his leg on my dressing table...mind you, that is my master bedroom. That dressing table was a gift from mum. i was boiling mad. Told hubby to see for himself...hubby told his father to sit in the living room. His mother asked for keys to my house...she herself said her friends want to see what Singapore flats are like :mad: told hubby, NO WAY.

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        Imami
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        janet_lee88:
        His mother asked for keys to my house...she herself said her friends want to see what Singapore flats are like :mad: told hubby, NO WAY.

        Your mil also live in a flat right? Then cant her friends view her own flat?

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          KSmom8
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          My MIL called to inform me her SIL ( whom I never met ) already on way and coming to my place. Couldn’t say I was going out cos was pregnant and on bed rest.


          Opened door to a stranger, showed her around, had to entertain her ALONE. I think she stayed for an hour, though it seemed like more. Never saw her again.

          Very weird. And all so that MIL could show off MY place to her SIL.

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            vinegar
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            my confinement was a disaster.MIL n SIL invited their relatives n frds came to our home n stayed till midnight. DH still had to send them back.


            i was on c-section.slow recovery+bf oredi very tiring,still hv to entertain them.DH also not understanding.Hope next life dh becomes woman.

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              vinegar
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              KSmom8:
              My MIL called to inform me her SIL ( whom I never met ) already on way and coming to my place. Couldn't say I was going out cos was pregnant and on bed rest.


              Opened door to a stranger, showed her around, had to entertain her ALONE. I think she stayed for an hour, though it seemed like more. Never saw her again.

              Very weird. And all so that MIL could show off MY place to her SIL.
              not weird.Happened to me also.When i was on confinement,MIL's relatives came alone n i nvr met them too. Worst of all,they came one by one n at different timing.

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                janet88
                last edited by

                bil's 5 room was in bishan...and so she wants bragging rights.

                asked sil and myself for house keys. sil asked her 'what for?' then she hinted to me about house keys but i ignored her. she has lots of nonsense...sil told me she brought her friends to visit her at workplace :faint:

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                  vinegar
                  last edited by

                  janet_lee88:
                  bil's 5 room was in bishan...and so she wants bragging rights.

                  asked sil and myself for house keys. sil asked her 'what for?' then she hinted to me about house keys but i ignored her. she has lots of nonsense...sil told me she brought her friends to visit her at workplace :faint:
                  why brought her frds to visit her at office??

                  My MIL once owned the hse keys...wah....no way we could rest. :yikes: She suka suka came,even wkend. :rant:

                  After we shifted to new pl, she didn't know how to come.our pl is quite remote,not so accessible by public transport.

                  She hinted she wanted to visit us,but we simply no time to entertain her.Coz i know once we started the visitation wf her,it'll be never ending story.
                  :scratchhead:

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                    janet88
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                    Mil brought her friends to see dil's office :faint:


                    My SIL was shocked...office leh...not shopping centre. Her colleague told her mil arrived. OMG.
                    Can you imagine if she was given house keys? No peace at all.

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                      Desserts
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                      Wah! Your mil is bit too much leh! We sahm, have no office, our home is our office. Mil thinks we should be very free to entertain them. Imagine, mil comes up every time. We will kee :siao: very soon

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                        janet88
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                        Desserts:
                        Wah! Your mil is bit too much leh! We sahm, have no office, our home is our office. Mil thinks we should be very free to entertain them. Imagine, mil comes up every time. We will kee :siao: very soon

                        No way am I going to give her house key...our home is private paradise...shake legs or lying on bed to surf Net...I will not have her intruding into my ME time.

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