Extra Marital Affair

[corneyAmber]

buds:

Yup. Agree. These are the kinda men who did not get their fun

before they got hitched. First ever girlfriend mah, never got
round to knowing other girls in their lives. Attribute that to
being shy and timid & the goody two shoes all their lives.
Upon marriage & with more experience thereafter, they
feel it's time to get out and hey... explore the world out
there.

This applies to women too.. When they marry the first guy they meet, they also end up in EMA more easily.

[Andaiz]

ks2me:

This applies to women too.. When they marry the first guy they meet, they also end up in EMA more easily.

Cham...I married my first serious boyfriend leh. How?

[Eagle-Ladybird]

so moral of the story is : choose and marry the Ah Bengs and the Ah Lians, the \"smellier\" the better. They have been there, done it, seen it . . eaten more salt than all the goody-2-shoes' have for rice. Nothing they have not seen or tasted, so no temptations will ever come up tops . . . . :? hmmm . . . how about that ?



Just kidding la . . . thot of making some smiles, since the topic is so heavy

[peapot]

Me too!! I marry my first serious boyfriend!! No wonder these days I don't even miss him when he's away. Infact I feel so free........can do what I want......ha....ha...

[Andaiz]

peapot:

Me too!! I marry my first serious boyfriend!! No wonder these days I don't even miss him when he's away. Infact I feel so free........can do what I want......ha....ha...

Hi-5, peapot. But I take the experiences of friends and forummers very seriously. I usually slip in a framed picture of the family in his luggage lah.

I know that's not 100% foolproof but its still a REMINDER of all the things he COULD choose to throw away in a moment of lust! :evil:

[corneyAmber]

Andaiz:

ks2me:

This applies to women too.. When they marry the first guy they meet, they also end up in EMA more easily.

Cham...I married my first serious boyfriend leh. How?

More easily..does not mean it will happen la.. Anyway mind over matters, so I believe you have the strength of mind. :celebrate:

[buds]

That’s the phrase… "Strength of mind."

It also helps that women have vaginas
in this case. I’m told we ladies have a
strong head over our shoulders & dun
always need to use our hearts to think
all the time. Some men just think with
their … ehem… ya know what lah hor.

[buds]

Andaiz:

I usually slip in a framed picture of the family in his luggage lah.


I know that's not 100% foolproof but its still a REMINDER of all the things he COULD choose to throw away in a moment of lust! :evil:

Not to be a wet blanket lar hor Andaiz..
I know of men who carry like a collage
of pictures of their children and
pictures of them and their wives in their
wallets, but they still open up the wallet
to get condoms slot inside for their side
dishes. So, back to reminder is again
what ks2me said... strength of mind...
nerves of steel. :lol:

[winth]

DH visits China often bec of his clientele base and his strength is in China deals.


It's really worrying when I don't hear from him after his dinner time. U know how Chinese Businessmen like to host dinners in exp hotels and restaurants and have more drink sessions/KTV/massages later on as 'dessert'. He's always back into the hotel rooms rather drunk from all the toastings and I am usually worried about the temptations outside. We all know how 酒後亂性 came about.

Once, during his trip in China, when he was surfing the net while preparing research stuff for his presentation, there were loads of pop-ups and fake links that link him to pornography. He told me about it when he returned to Singapore that he had glimpsed and downloaded a couple to watch. I got so upset and told him not to do that. Till now, still watching over and making sure he has kicked that temptation. And of cos, give him more perks during bedtime :evil: He kept to his word (got other ways to catch his traces) till now. :xedfingers:

[Andaiz]

buds:

Not to be a wet blanket lar hor Andaiz..

I know of men who carry like a collage
of pictures of their children and
pictures of them and their wives in their
wallets, but they still open up the wallet
to get condoms slot inside for their side
dishes.

No worries Buds... like I say, it's not 100% foolproof. They want to stray get 5 horses oso can't hold them back.

buds:

So, back to reminder is again
what ks2me said... strength of mind...
nerves of steel. :lol:

Strength of mind, nerves of steel, and legs of speed to FLEE when temptation comes!