Adoption
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Congrats, AdonciaTang. I think it's great. Older children often get overlooked in favour of babies, and, yes, there are unknowns and what-ifs, but, hey, that's life. I wish you the best of luck and I'm sure you'll all be very happy together
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AdonciaTang:
Not able to offer much but do pray about it coz only He can provide the right answers to your doubts.
Both of her parents are dead.Nebbermind:
Personally, that is too close for comfort.
But why would the couple wanna give up the child, esp coming from a Christian background?
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phtthp:
did you try IUI or IVF method ... better than adoption, bec it's your own genes ?AdonciaTang:
Haha true true. Was thinking of adopting a young girl too. Have been trying for a daughter but no results.
Sorry, i don't believe in adoption, maybe because of my friend's case.
Years ago, my friend adopted a baby girl from China.
when she grew up, she brought her lots of pain, heartache, grievances, sorrow ... defiant, stubborn, disobedient. In the end, my friend died from cancer.
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AdonciaTang:
If one day she leaves us, then so be it. At least, DH and I have fulfill our duties as parents giving her unconditional love.
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Jennifer:
That is very noble of you.AdonciaTang:
If one day she leaves us, then so be it. At least, DH and I have fulfill our duties as parents giving her unconditional love.
:udawoman:
you'll be blessed ! -
Very happy to read that you have thought/talked through with your dh and have decided to love the girl as your own. I wish you and your new family unit all the best. :snuggles:
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Thank You everyone!
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AdonciaTang:
If one day she leaves us, then so be it. At least, DH and I have fulfill our duties as parents giving her unconditional love.
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HopeandSorrows:
thank you. now applying to the family court n doing all other procedures, hope she can come and stay w us before CNYAdonciaTang:
If one day she leaves us, then so be it. At least, DH and I have fulfill our duties as parents giving her unconditional love.
:udawoman: :udawoman: ε₯½δΌε€§οΌ
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How old is the girl?
How many kids do you already have?
Juz curious.
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