All About Autism
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My friend’s child is an asperger. She is a very very brilliant n pretty little girl attending p1 mainstream. You can hardly tell that she has asd. Within 4 months, she got bullied by three different group of classmates. Two groups made fun of her due to her quirks n one boy hit her. During one of the school outing, her sensory was kind of overloaded with activities n thus slower to respond to teacher’s instructions. She got scolded by this teacher in charge (this teacher didnt know of her condition)several times in front of all the children n parents. Her form teacher n aed didn’t help much to prevent or stop such bullies. I was upset when I hear all these but good thing is that she has the ability to relate incident to her mum n also added to the fact that my friend is a sahm n has more time to spend on her child n to teach her how to fend for herself.
Mainstream n PL definitely has it’s pros n cons. 1 teacher to 30 students in mainstream vs 2 teachers to 20 students in path light? I guess it still makes a very big diff in helping a young child. -
Starting we go see, the doc said child has flat foot. As it is so expensive to make insole, we just forgo doing the insole. Few months later, go see the same doc as CC's teacher complaining kid cannot keep still in school. Same doc said the feet look OK, then tell us teacher suspects kid got autism. Send us with our kid to do tests, now diagnose mild autism.
:yikes: So now not sure what happen? From feet till autism. Thinking of a second opinion. Should we see another doc? -
jme:
But this is in P1. Dont you think the issue is with the 2 teachers, irregardless of condition?My friend's child is an asperger. She is a very very brilliant n pretty little girl attending p1 mainstream. You can hardly tell that she has asd. Within 4 months, she got bullied by three different group of classmates. Two groups made fun of her due to her quirks n one boy hit her. During one of the school outing, her sensory was kind of overloaded with activities n thus slower to respond to teacher's instructions. She got scolded by this teacher in charge (this teacher didnt know of her condition)several times in front of all the children n parents. Her form teacher n aed didn't help much to prevent or stop such bullies. I was upset when I hear all these but good thing is that she has the ability to relate incident to her mum n also added to the fact that my friend is a sahm n has more time to spend on her child n to teach her how to fend for herself.
Mainstream n PL definitely has it's pros n cons. 1 teacher to 30 students in mainstream vs 2 teachers to 20 students in path light? I guess it still makes a very big diff in helping a young child. -
Www:
Is there another children hospital can diagnose on austism? We might want to see a second opinion other than the doctor from KKH.
Perhaps you can try calling Child Guidance Clinic at Health Promotion Board. It is part of IMH.
If really autistic, then should go for early intervention. Otherwise the problems may get harder to correct.
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Dreamgear:
But this is in P1. Dont you think the issue is with the 2 teachers, irregardless of condition?
Personally I think P1 students already not that innocent, capable of intentional bullying. Apart from teachers, classmates also very important. If you get hit in special school, it is probably \"unintentional\" as in that child cannot control and hit whoever is nearest. If get hit in mainstream, probably intentional as in target you.
I used to be afraid that my child will go into a lousy class and get bullied by those more gangster type. Then I learn that smart ones may not hit you but some can be very evil. Push your buttons (and that is so easy with ASD child) then act all innocent when teacher comes. You are their entertainment.
Sorry if I frightened anyone. Just my own suay experience. -
Another hospital is institute of mental health
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jme:
boys are quite rough in school.My friend's child is an asperger. She is a very very brilliant n pretty little girl attending p1 mainstream. You can hardly tell that she has asd.
Within 4 months, she got bullied by three different group of classmates. Two groups made fun of her due to her quirks n one boy hit her.
for an asd child -
if is a girl and if is possible, maybe try to send her to an All Girls' school (mission based) instead of co-ed school (mixed with boys), with teaching support environment for asd children.
Anglican / Catholic / Methodist mission based All Girls' school is better, to try to minimize bullying as much as possible. -
Www:
Is there another children hospital can diagnose on austism? We might want to see a second opinion other than the doctor from KKH.
In the public sector, KKH and NUH are the two institutions that provide services to support ASD for young children. I think IMH caters for bigger kids beyond 7yo?
As for private, the last that I know, TMC has a very experienced paediatrician that specializes in developmental issues such as ASD. There should be services for diagnosis there. There is a Thomson Paediatric Clinic at Novena Square that provides services for diganosis, OT and SLT support for ASD. You may like to check them out.
As for whether to stop intervention halfway, I think the question is whether you have seen any improvements in your child after the intervention. If there are measureable improvements, then its an indication that intervention is beneficial to your child and this could help you make a decision on next step.
Hope the above helps. -
Www:
Should mild autism join Early Intervention? How accurate is psychology tests and other tests based on the behavior noticed from CC and parents? If join early intervention half way, can stop going? I find the cost very expensive. On top still have to go CC. :gloomy:
I will speak from my personal experience. I have an Asperger's daughter who is now 16yo. We knew she had issues but didn't get her diagnosed until she was 14yo as we felt we could manage her ourselves. In general, the younger the child is tested (up to school age), the less reliable it is. Also, many interventions are (to me) just common sense, and since I am a SAHM and willing to read up, we have done various things with our daughter but all at home, as and when we felt that it was the right time to address those issues. She has been in mainstream kindergartens and schools since she was 3yo, and while it hasn't been totally smooth sailing, she has coped OK socially (below average, but not too bad) and her academic grades are average. So my view is that early interventions are only necessary if you feel you cannot handle your child yourself, realising that mainstream cc will not be able to fulfill all your child's needs. I can't compare how my daughter would have been if we had sent her for all the therapies available, but it would have been stressful, expensive and even more time-intensive, so we are happy how things have turned out for us so far. Just my thoughts. -
jme:
I think that this is price we pay when we send our kids to mainstream, and some resilience is call for, both from the child and the parents. My daughter (Asperger's) has encountered similar experiences, and we have had to deal with them too, mostly by teaching our daughter how to cope and avoid. Not all teachers are sympathetic and understanding, and although I will try to talk to them, some just don't get it. In my daughter's time, I don't think PL was an option, and anyway, we wanted her to stick with mainstream as long as possible, and for Asperger's kids, it's generally possible, I think. While we want other people to cut our kids some slack, our kids also have to learn to cope in a world where the majority will not understand.My friend's child is an asperger. She is a very very brilliant n pretty little girl attending p1 mainstream. You can hardly tell that she has asd. Within 4 months, she got bullied by three different group of classmates. Two groups made fun of her due to her quirks n one boy hit her. During one of the school outing, her sensory was kind of overloaded with activities n thus slower to respond to teacher's instructions. She got scolded by this teacher in charge (this teacher didnt know of her condition)several times in front of all the children n parents. Her form teacher n aed didn't help much to prevent or stop such bullies. I was upset when I hear all these but good thing is that she has the ability to relate incident to her mum n also added to the fact that my friend is a sahm n has more time to spend on her child n to teach her how to fend for herself.
Mainstream n PL definitely has it's pros n cons. 1 teacher to 30 students in mainstream vs 2 teachers to 20 students in path light? I guess it still makes a very big diff in helping a young child.
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