3Boys:fishatwork:sad to say, there are some parents who hope that their children will be very independent enough to take care of themselves and don't have to bother the parents so much. They would rather work over-time, go out with friends for drinks and leave the child in the grandparents/ maid's care and probably think that their responsibility is just to provide material needs to the child, but not spending enough time with them. Different strokes for different folks. The concept of parents spending a lot of quality time with their children is not a universal one. For instance, in some cultures, children may be sent off to boarding school at very young ages. They don't necessarily turn out too badly......hmm, let's put it this way, is the child agreeable/ happy with such arrangement? (boarding school) Well, the parents who make this decision for them may not know this might not be the best option afterall.Parents who spend more time with their children will go a long way, the more you are involved in your child's life, the more you can readily offer guidance and support at the right time since you understand his weaknesses and strengths better.