ammonite:Don't the kids complain about not being able to do their own things or meet their friends or just erm, do nothing?ammonite,my ds2 will complain no time to do own things everytime when it is bedtime! :spank: prior to that, he will read all the way from after piano prac (after dinner) to bedtime 9.30pm. then when time to sleep....complain no free time! :spank: but other time, after he is done with reading/browsing his library books (i had to keep a secret stash to bring out to curb his boredom), he will complaint nothing to do. even when i clip his finger nails, he will ask what can he do while i clip his nails. i like his high energy level...so long computer games is out of the picture, he will go look for things to do (reading, doodling, lego, old puzzles, assessment books!!) during pockets of free time.now he has been pestering me to sign him up for swimming. but it has been raining most weekends late afternoon....ds1 will complain no free time. but give him free time, he will play handphone games non-stop....or play with ds2 and get into disagreement due to the numerous rules he likes to set for the game (or ds2 sore loser). :spank: