Would like to share this insightful book that offers useful parenting tips:
我们教了孩子什么 (作者：陈文卿)
What have we taught our child? (Author: Chen Wen Qing)
为人父母的该教孩子什么呢？
What should the parents teach their child?
一、行为举止要视场合而定，
演奏厅、游戏场、大饭店、家庭中各有不同的表现，父母要不断叮咛一一指导，而且要，让孩子动如脱兔、静似处子，分寸拿捏恰到好处，不会扰乱他人才是有家教的好孩子。
(1) Behaviour and manner will vary depending on the situation, like concert hall, playground, restaurant or home. Parents need to guide their kids constantly, so that the kids will behave appropriately in different occasion without being a nuisance to others.
二、说话要轻声细语、字字分明，谈吐大方、用词优雅，加上一颗善体人意的心，一定会让孩子人气百分百、处处受欢迎。
(2) Converse gently and clearly with pleasant words as well as being empathetic, will enable the child to gain popularity everywhere.
三、主动释放善意，待人亲切有礼，多一分尊重，少一分傲慢，自然赢得他人的友谊。
Show kindness spontaneously.By treating others with respect will enable the child to garner friendship.
在社区中进进出出，别忘了教孩子向管理员道早问好，电梯里虽然不是很熟的邻居，我们也可以面带微笑、点头致意，上下公车，大方地说出心中的感激，
Need to teach the child to greet others, even for neighbours that we met in the lift, we can smile and nod our head or show appreciation to the bus driver verbally when we take public transport.
就算爸妈接送上下课，也要习惯表达谢意，点点滴滴累积无比的热力，孩子就会像暖暖的冬阳，人们总是迫不及待的想要拥抱他。
Show gratitude to parents who fetch the kids to and fro school.
气质是最好的化妆品，良好的家教更如端庄合身的服饰，衬托出高贵的人格，让人爱不释手、赞叹不已！
Personality is the best cosmetic, good family education is akin to a well-fitting clothing that complement integrity. :rahrah:
Above article can be found under 目 錄, topics: 家教佳教:
http://www.minlun.org.tw/3pt/3-dreamweaver/38-01.htm
