Bentan:Hi,All appeals should be made with one pre-condition: parents and child must all agree to appeal. If the parents want it and the child disagree, please do not proceed. Whereas if the child wants it and the parents disagree, please work it out so that your child is happy with the Secondary school that he is staying.
Having said that, I do have cases where the child does not take the issue as seriously as the parents. My role then is to help both parties see the various scenarios and decide together on the final course.
One example is a Malaysian boy who came to Singapore at the age of 12. He was not allowed to start with P6 and so was 1 year older than his classmates. In Sec-2 he repeated due to BGR and became 2 years older than his classmates. After Sec-3 the Principal decided that he should be transfered to Sec-4 N-level. The parents wanted to appeal but he was not as keen. Knowing that he had developed inferiority complex over the years, I sat down with the family and help them see all possibilities to arrive at a mutually acceptable course.
Such case is much more complex as it requires regular follow up. The boy finally agreed with the appeal and the Principal also admitted him into Sec-4 Express. However, this is not the end to it. The boy needs regular motivation and reminder to get out of inferiority. I such cases I had to work closely with the parents throughout the year to keep him going...
I have been hearing abt this appeal thingy. What U mean is that if you are eligible but bec there's too many applicants, you can appeal to get into the school? Will this delay the chance of getting into the 2nd school?
Any idea how they decide whether to tak in those in this waiting list? And what is the considerations scools wil hv in mind when accepting these cases in appeal? And when should U appeal?
thks
In her old school, she stayed back 4 out of 5 school days for her CCA and school enrichment but when she gets back home, she is still bursting wif energy and still finds time to do lots of leisure reading.... now she stays back 3 - 4 days in school but is back looking drained almost everyday.... :faint: I jus wonder how other parents plan xtra tuition or enrichment into their schedule...... I feel so bad for her so normally I let her R&R whn she is done wif her hmework and on weekends......
you working?