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    • RE: Property Views

      3Boys:
      Instead of the what's, maybe we need to look at the why's.


      Over the decades, the whole concept of subsidised housing has been perverted beyond the point of recognition. The gahmen itself can take the 'blame' for raising expectations, and now they are riding a tiger they can't get off from.

      Philosophically, what exactly is subsidised housing (aka HDB) supposed to serve as?

      A platform to extract a subsidy from the gahmen?

      An asset you can monetise as a springboard to private property?

      An investment vehicle for you to generate income?

      Or

      A means to good affordable housing for those who cannot afford it otherwise?

      I suggest the last point is what it had started out to be and what it needs to get back to being.

      Why are folk being tied up in knots now? Because we had tried to play public housing for what it was not intended to be. Problem is, the public housing subsidy is so pervasive that one would be at a competitive disadvantage not to have made use of it, and many people had, regardless of whether they could afford private housing or not.

      Nothing fair or unfair about it. We were exploiting a loophole to the general detriment of the housing market and possibly contrary to financial prudence, and now the loophole is closed, cue howling and teeth-gnashing.

      Not the what's and how's, but the why's.......
      Well said.
      So that's why there are more & more of those seminars and workshops organised by private companies that supposedly teach you the tips and tricks of taking full advantage of the loopholes, and make it so achievable and doable for ordinary working people to play the property investment game. Personally, i went to some of their previews and am curious ... Will you spend 2-3k over 2 days weekend to learn it? Has anyone attended such workshops? Please share ...

      posted in Money Matters
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      mum2one
    • RE: Any Mommies in mid-late 30s or over 40 with small children ?

      Hi definitely over qualify and checking in here ..

      In my 40s with only one P2 kid. now who can beat me haha!

      Nowadays with advanced development and progress, whether we are the Baby Boomers, or the X or Y generation, the trend is : the 40s are the new 30s, the 30s are the new 20s! the 20s are the teens!! So that's some phenomenon we all can embrace and live with, isn't it? šŸ™‚

      posted in Recess Time
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      mum2one
    • RE: All About Kids' Eye-sight

      honeybeel:
      Hi,


      Anyone can advice how to prevent the children to rub the eye when they are fitted with the ortho-k lens at night?

      Anyone try using eye shield/ mask? :?

      Thanks.
      Hi,
      yes, it's indeed a problem if the kid keeps wanting to rub their eyes when they are wearing the lens. However, i dun think wearing eye-shield/mask will help coz the itch most likely is from the inside of the eye. For beginners, the kids will definitely feel 'itchy' coz they are not accustomed to having something in their eyes. What i do is to let him hold a small moist soft towel for him, ready and handy for him to wipe the eyes gently. Usu they are itchy only in the beginning, ie immediately just after the lens were fitted in. After a few rubs with the moist hanky, it will be ok.
      Please ensure they rub gently, and not vigorously - lens or no lens!

      Also, when you put the rewetting liquid, make sure he does not have to stare into bright lights at the ceiling, do it in dim light and again, have the wet towel handy for him so that he can wipe off the excess and soothe the 'itch'. HTH

      posted in Health
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      mum2one
    • RE: All About Kids' Eye-sight

      amylqf:
      2ppaamm or other ortho-k users,


      May i know if Andrew has provide the CRT lense solution or we have to purchase ourselves?

      where you get yours? and how much per bottle?
      so sorry amylqf .. as i dun usu check my ksp inbox. have pm you!

      to answer you : Yes, we got the 1st set (opened new for us to practise when we got the lens the 1st time) free. Subsequently, we are to purchase from them once they run out. Ours haven't run out yet.

      posted in Health
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      mum2one
    • RE: All About Kids' Eye-sight

      beeb:
      Hi,


      Anyone's kid(s) using/used the Ortho-K lenses or Atropine eye solution to control myopia? Any advises?

      My 9 year old son's myopic reading is going on a worrying increase of average 200 degree increase in about 6mths!!! Search the web on myopia control programs and read about Ortho-K lenses and Atropine eye solution. Not sure about the results and am concern as these programs are not cheap at all... hai....my husband and I are at our wits at what more we can help our son to fight this battle....

      Any advise/info from parents with the same concern??
      Hi,
      I've just put my P2 son on the Ortho-K program last week as a result of parents sharing in this forum. Recently, my son came back fr sch with a letter fr HPB to get his eyes checked - that's when i came to ksp forum to look for some answers. And i'm really thankful for all the sharing of real hands-on expereinces that lead me to find out more about the solutions available to curb myopia nowadays.

      I am super myopic. When i first started wearing glasses at P3, i was already @ 300 dg!! So from then on, every time i visited the optician, my myopia would increase and i must say, it was really stressful in those hard financial times, and kena scolding for not taking care of my eyes (i wondered why it became my fault that it kept increasing?!!) and wondering if i might really go blind one day!! Now i know why. It is inevitable coz as long as we are growing, our eyeballs will keep growing too, so the spectacle lens will have to change too! Just like now, as we age, our eye muscles will lapse, so we will end up being lao hua!

      From a visit to the optrometrist that's being recommended here, i understand that there are 4 methods to somehow 'control' myopia.
      Besides Ortho-K, there's the Atropine eye-drop (feedback of not being very effective and also cornea infection), then there's special brand of specs lens (which controls 30%) and of course, the normal spectacles (most common).
      So among the 4 choices, I chose Ortho-K coz i suppose it's the most effective (controls 70% according to the optrometrist and positive reviews from parents). Yes, and of couse it is also the most expensive solution - coz the lens supposedly can last 2-3 yrs before the need to change depending on individual).

      The most challenging part for us is putting on the lens every night and taking them out in the mornings. We've just tried it once only anyway. Wasn't a very pleasant experience to begin with coz he kept blinking his eyes when i tried to put the lens in. Imagine putting eye drop can be a struggle with our kids, what more when you have to put the lens in. And coz it is the first time he felt something in his eye, he started crying, uncomfortable la, itching la, tearing .. big meltdown .. sigh... The next morning, taking out could be even more challenging .. Doesn't help that my son has small but thick eyelids like me.

      As my son was having exams this week, i do not want to subject him to unnecessary anxiety. We intend to start the routine next week to get him used to it and right through the June hols when we are more free to visit the optometrist for review. Have to tell him no choice, he has to co-operate and make this work coz we have already spent so much and decided upon this together. You need to be very clear what's your ultimate objective. For me, it is to delay/avoid letting my son wear spectacles altogether esp when he's still so young. He has many years of schooling ahead. I want to start him young since his degree is still low, crossing my fingers it will reduce, if not maintain, as long as possible.

      IMHO, Ortho K will be suitable for older kids for maturity in handling the routine. However, if you start them young when their degrees are low, i believe it is more effective to control their myopia rather than to face the stress of increasing degrees every year. The parents are right to say that in urban and developed Singapore, extremely rare to prevent myopia coz which sch going kid is not subject to near work like reading or computer work on a daily basis?? If not now, maybe later. The challenge is, if they are already myopic, is to control their myopia degree up to the age of 18-21 perhaps when they can choose other options like contact lens or lazik. By then, let's hope there is really a convenient cure šŸ™‚

      posted in Health
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      mum2one
    • RE: KSP Forum Avatar

      tankee:
      No worries :celebrate:


      You can follow the steps here to add the picture as your avatar

      http://www.kiasuparents.com/kiasu/forum/viewtopic.php?p=103832#103832
      Wow tankee, you've read my mind!! Your reply comes just in time!! i was trying my luck from page 1 then backwards from page 106 *gasp* to find out where's the instruction I've read yesterday to upload the avatar!
      Thank you thank you ah :lol:

      posted in Recess Time
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      mum2one
    • RE: KSP Forum Avatar

      tankee:
      here you go ..


      alternatively, you can find the exact comic strip that you like and I'll turn it into an animated avatar for you. šŸ˜‰
      Thank you :thankyou: tankee, this is fun!! :lovesite:

      posted in Recess Time
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      mum2one
    • RE: KSP Forum Avatar

      tankee:
      LAI LAI LAI ...... WHO NEEDS HELP WITH AVATAR?...


      šŸ˜‰
      And qms needs ET avatar, kindly help post here if you come across any.
      Me! Me! Where can I look for a suitable avatar? Ermm .. I have 3 labrador retrievers (same type as Charlie Brown of Peanuts), so animated funny cartoons of dogs, or Baby Blues, or Chew on It cartoons would be good! But I'm not IT savvy :? and I really need your step by step help :?: ..

      posted in Recess Time
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      mum2one
    • RE: How old were you when you had your first child?

      Hi, for those who are following this thread, perhaps you may also like to read this poll and thread of discussion on \"How old were you when you had your first child\" at http://www.kiasuparents.com/kiasu/forum/viewtopic.php?t=1515 rather similar subject ..

      posted in Health
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      mum2one
    • RE: Club Eastenders (From Kallang to Pasir Ris)

      Hi! I also wan!

      School (ex-TKGS) East, Home (ex-Tampines, Pasir Ris) East, Ex-boyfrens also East .. kekeke! :love:
      Now I'm staying in Hougang woh .. (North-East) also East right?
      So Chief, should I also be kiasu a bit and join the North gang too?
      šŸ˜‰

      posted in Clubs for parents in different parts of Singapore
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      mum2one
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