One thing seems clear - parental involvement makes a huge difference even if there are tutors. Even if it is just circling the wrong questions and asking DC to ask the tutor. Even if it is helping DC file his things so that his papers are more organised. Even if it is helping DC mark MCQs to save her some time (as OE questions are beyond a number of us!)
Some school prelim papers are very hard and it may be worthwhile checking school overall performance as this may help allay some worries.
As a first time PSLE parent, I am never sure if I am taking the right strategy for my DS. But I keep telling myself that I can only do what I think is best for him. We can only do our best. 
I felt that my daughter has done her best too as well - just homework and homework since beginning of the year. If she has done her best, as parents, we need to support them as this is just the initial part of their study life....the path is still very long...
Parental involvement - I hv done my best
Child's ownership of preparation - dc has done his/her best
Can only pray for the best and accept whatever results in Nov. And still love the child no matter what :love: