Thanks westmom for the recommendation and reviews. just now I googled and found it. hee. Clarabella: cannot lah, he is only 4.5, he mess up kitchen more leh.

smurf:Hi parents,I wonder where to buy nicely made kite and where/when to fly the kite? weather so hot now and no wind. Hi , I have an online kite shop, do feel free to go in & take a look, whereas for where to fly kite, Marina Barrage is a great place, it's at marina south. the wind is very good! thanks & cheers! http://flykites.webs.com

hmm, we bring him out sometimes...to beach, etc. but tat's only if he behaves well...if not, we have to stand by our motto: Cannot go out if boy throw tantrum.haha.Do nothing...just sit around doing nothing lor...dun even know if he is thinking...I just know, he sitting doing NOTHING...haha.If time allows, I do bring him go cycling though...but that's another story lah...I mean this thread is about how to instill creativity in a child...

Hi!My son also used to ask like these questions like the glue insident.At first I got so angry and scold/beat him.Then I analyse and realize that when I talk to him I was so hurry (my tone was higher and my speach faster was make him angry) that I had lot of work to do.So after some incidents,I patiently ask him why you behave so bad and rude and I told him previously you so obedient boy whatever I said you listen.Then He slowly open his mouth and told me his father never plays with him as he always go out to study and work.After that I told to my husband please spend 10 mins to family time.I bought a game that can play family members together.cos of our time constraint affeted him.Another major thing learn from school friends.He use stupid and crazy often.I said I banned these words.cos my girl get so angry.He use these words to bully her.often they are fighting.Now reduced.He told me that he learnt to use these words at school cos he can defeat them.I bought a psycology book that chicken soup for kids soul.I borrowed two psycology books that are Supper nanny (programme in abc channel) and DK parenting book.Supper nanny guide how to handle a misbehave child.It takes time,we have to choose time and place to talk.First satisfy his needs.Then he can listen to us.For me,the problem increase when I always used to talk in my mother tongue that I wanted him to speak in our mother tongue.cos he doesn’t like to speak and never speak at home.He mentioned that also he couldn’t understand the long sentences.Now I talk in both languages.Good Luck!

Thanks cmm for taking the effort to type out the quotes. really appreciate it.:thankyou:

I've seen on the Tyra Show late night, where sheinterviewed a teenaged girl who was on marijuana,weed and the works.. She has a baby girl who has recently learnt to crawl.. And the baby crawls all over the table where the \"powders\" are from themummy's sniff-ups and also the syringe the mummyand her friends have used to inject themselves with..The teenager's mum and sis came in as interventionso that she cud get early help. But the teenager claimedshe can't survive rehab and will just cut down her activitieson her own at home and totally lose the habit/addicition...Sigh..Heyya winth... you're saved, thanks to mum! God bless.

Blessedwife:Hi Phankao,Oh you mentioned that even if with grade 8, is not qualify to teach so do you think I need to request the teacher to show me her diploma before I engaged her service ?What should I look out for apart from the cert ? The teacher claimed that she has taught many students and was in this line for many years already.Thank you in advance actually I've not bothered to ask for physical certificate. Bc I'm familiar with the teachers engaged.