JennyP:smurf:totally agree wth u. but hor, easier said than done. sometimes, when u r mad, u would think of nothing except anger. :stupid:Yes, i agree too, i try to calm down too, but i cannot, too angry and keep thinking how come when i was small i never retort my parent, but now why so different, i keep quarrel with my son every day, sometime i really feel very tire and hate to fetch him :?: Best regardsJennyHi Jenny,how old is your son ? Cos...I also find myself quarreling with my DS1 everyday... and I am working on stopping this... DS1 is 10yo.