kids had held me back for divorce as they are still very young. But on the other hand I find that I can’t accept his life style and he had confirmed not going to make any changes about it, and he enjoying his life now while I had to endure it. I think my life will be shorten because I can’t walk out of this miserable life. He does agreed to divorce but he will not going to give me any things saying that I might know someone in future and his friend divorced did not give the wife anything too. If I did not make any contribution to the house, and I am employed, the kids follow him, is it ture that he can opt not to give me anything after divorce?

My husnabd go drinking everynight from Mon to Sun and only come home 5am or 6am, he will go straight from his office, lock his phone with password, MSN to girl in chinese, chg his bank account, chg his dressing and go for expensive haircut, had ONS with vietnam girl when he was in vietnam last year, visit china pro in KTV, found eye lasher in his front car seat (he said belong to KTV pro), not interested in intimacy with me and not interested to go out with the family. But he still pay monthly maintainance, go market with me, buy me dinner on Sat at coffee shop, pay tution fees and said he love me. After I realised the changed since last Sept, I need to take sleeping pill everynight till today and will wake up at interval of 3am, 4am, 6am to check if he is back or gave him a call, but he still will not come home. I had 2 children, 7 and 9, I m early 40 with a job, should I divorce? :?