if i am a mil,

[Jennifer]

vinegar:

janet_lee88:

when i become a mil, or before that, i will be fair to both son-in-law and daughter-in-law...be cordial and adopt a friendly approach, don't whine, don't interfere especially when they quarrel.

what if u find out ur DIL bullies ur son? making him doing all hseworks n running errands...possible not to interfere?

Bully? Ya, hubby n I always talk about this. What if the DIL bullies our son(s)?

Close 2 eyes lor. It is up to the man to stand up for his own rights. If he cant tolerate, he shld talk to the wife. Not his parents talk to his wife.

[Nebbermind]

Jennifer:

Bully? Ya, hubby n I always talk about this. What if the DIL bullies our son(s)?


Close 2 eyes lor. It is up to the man to stand up for his own rights. If he cant tolerate, he shld talk to the wife. Not his parents talk to his wife.

If parents gotta come forward, then really a mommy's boy - confirmed and double confirmed!

[vinegar]

if the wife gotta come forward,tell his mother,SIL stop bullying her husband, oso confirm he is mummy son?

[vinegar]

DH’s SIL likes to ask my DH to do things for her.She won’t ask her husband(DH’s elder brother).Her excuse? her hubby in high level job while my DH is not.


there were countless time i’ve to stand up for my DH…i really tired…

i am struggling hard to manage everything for the family,while he is busy wf his parents,SIL…etc…They’ve maid to manage everything for them,while i’ve zero help.Yet,they still not satisfy n keep taking advantage fr. my submissive DH.

[Funz]

vinegar:

DH's SIL likes to ask my DH to do things for her.She won't ask her husband(DH's elder brother).Her excuse? her hubby in high level job while my DH is not.


there were countless time i've to stand up for my DH....i really tired...

i am struggling hard to manage everything for the family,while he is busy wf his parents,SIL..etc...They've maid to manage everything for them,while i've zero help.Yet,they still not satisfy n keep taking advantage fr. my submissive DH.

In your case, I think the fault lies more with your DH than with your MIL & SIL. If fact, a lot of issues that seemingly reasonable women have with their ILs are a result of the husbands inability to manage his relationship with his family.

[nightlone]

janet_lee88:

when i become a mil, or before that, i will be fair to both son-in-law and daughter-in-law...be cordial and adopt a friendly approach, don't whine, don't interfere especially when they quarrel.

curious though... what is meant by 'fair'?
what's fair to me might not be fair to others...
i am sure that my dh's parents think they have been 'fair' to me...
but i really think it's not fair at all :siam:

[Jennifer]

nightlone:

janet_lee88:

when i become a mil, or before that, i will be fair to both son-in-law and daughter-in-law...be cordial and adopt a friendly approach, don't whine, don't interfere especially when they quarrel.

curious though... what is meant by 'fair'?
what's fair to me might not be fair to others...
i am sure that my dh's parents think they have been 'fair' to me...
but i really think it's not fair at all :siam:

reminds me of the radio joke:

aunt A: my dd married well, the husband does everything, she does not hv to do anything.

aunt B: congrats. Is your son married?

aunt A (sobbing): aiyo, he suay lor. The wife does not know anything, he has to do everything.

[wonderm]

vinegar:

if the wife gotta come forward,tell his mother,SIL stop bullying her husband, oso confirm he is mummy son?

Really can't resist answering this because I have 2 sons. If it happens to me in future, I will say he is definitely not 'mummy's son'. A married man still so useless, better not tell anyone he is my son. :slapshead:

[Nebbermind]

vinegar:

DH's SIL likes to ask my DH to do things for her.She won't ask her husband(DH's elder brother).Her excuse? her hubby in high level job while my DH is not.


there were countless time i've to stand up for my DH....i really tired...

i am struggling hard to manage everything for the family,while he is busy wf his parents,SIL..etc...They've maid to manage everything for them,while i've zero help.Yet,they still not satisfy n keep taking advantage fr. my submissive DH.

WT :censored: !

I thought high level job can ask secretary to do the running around?!!

[janet88]

Hubby's sister loves to bully him too...bcos this fella here never says NO to her...she will never dare to pull this stunt on the other 2 brothers..or she will kena :censored: from them.