Facebook & maid

[piyobaby]

On top of that, need to balance out pacifying them or enforced strict discipline…

[jasmineong]

syen27:

\"we guide, we fuss, we nag, we get ourselves upset and upset them...\" this is so true! I found myself with another child to worry about since I got my helper..

Very true, I find myself worrying about her, she is not mature and I realize that I need to spend a lot of time at home supervising. Sometimes, feel like I am chained at home because of that. So ironical.

[fcmaid]

Maids come here for different reasons. However, the most important reason is to get a better salary. It is necessary to nip the bud when it is early. Hence, it is utmost to inculcate the idea that they are here for a higher pay so that their families can have a better life at home for this, they are many who would save and scrimp to reach their aim.

[MustardSeeds]

I thought of getting a maid as well. It seems that there are alot of things to considered after reading the posts.

[st2]

I’m thinking fresh Indo maid would be less inclined to have these FB type of problems.


Is it ex-sin Indo, Ph maids or all ex maids from Middle east, Malaysia as well ? They seem to need to have the whole world know what they are doing, need to feel like they are celebrity with followers??? Really… is there so much to talk about on the phone, to post on FB???

[junemum72]

st2:

I'm thinking fresh Indo maid would be less inclined to have these FB type of problems.


Is it ex-sin Indo, Ph maids or all ex maids from Middle east, Malaysia as well ? They seem to need to have the whole world know what they are doing, need to feel like they are celebrity with followers?!?!?!?!? Really...... is there so much to talk about on the phone, to post on FB?!?!?!?

Not true that fresh ones are less inclined with such issues. Even if they are from kampong, very conservative type, things will change, is just a matter of when. They get influenced by neighbor maids as easy even if they do not go out.

Once they start to interact, things change. It can be anywhere. (talking at the kitchen to someone staying one level up or one level down), throw rubbish, fetch kids from school, go down buy things etc.

My 1st Indo maid bought a 2nd hand phone from an old bird upstair shortly after one yr with me and she didn't have off day for 2 yrs at that time. When she got her phone, everything changed. And they usually buy behind our back. Even contract says no phone, it still happens.

[youngmum]

get new maid. dont ever get ex - singapore, ex taiwan, ex - whatever country maid… the have lots of demand … they think their employers are fools… they think we cannot survive without them. … there are so many maids wanting to come out to work, there is no lack of new maids at all. just walk into any agency (lots of them)and you see thick thick file of new maids waiting to find employer…

[fcmaid]

Some are inclined to use facebook as they are IT savvy. Like those from myanmar, whose IT knowledge is not as advanced.

[junemum72]

fcmaid:

Some are inclined to use facebook as they are IT savvy. Like those from myanmar, whose IT knowledge is not as advanced.

If they are given a chance, very fast they will learn

[nms1]

youngmum:

get new maid. dont ever get ex - singapore, ex taiwan, ex - whatever country maid.. the have lots of demand .. they think their employers are fools... they think we cannot survive without them. .. there are so many maids wanting to come out to work, there is no lack of new maids at all. just walk into any agency (lots of them)and you see thick thick file of new maids waiting to find employer..

I think this is very much a matter of personal choice. I have only had transfer maids and that is my strong preference as I like to meet someone face-to-face before bringing them into my house. I wouldn't employ someone in my team at work in another country without either myself or someone interviewing them in person so I prefer not to do that with a maid.

Yes, they are more street-savvy but that also means they can hit the ground running in their job with minimal training. It really depends on what you are looking for.