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    Secondary School Pocket Money

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    • V Offline
      VitoRelax
      last edited by

      Way2GO:
      VitoRelax:

      Maybe the amount varies from school to school bcos the canteen in some schools may be more ex than some other schools.


      fren how much u give ur kids
      Mine says his friends are getting ard $50 thereabouts per week
      I neither want to deprive nor indulge him
      Just want him to hv enough to eat comfortably with some leftover to save.

      I dunno yet bcos this is the first time my girl in Sec 1, still watching & monitoring what others do. I suppose I will have to find out the cost food in her canteen.

      But in Pri school, her canteen food is only 50 cents, she brought her own drinks. So, I gave her only $1.20 per day. But if she stays back, then I add another $1.20 for every day that she stays back.

      But I guess the food in Sec 1 will cost much more. Is it bcos MOE does not subsidize canteen rental for Sec school ?

      I know in Pri school, the rental are either free or pay negligible amount.

      P/s But I think your $50 per week is spoiling market leh ... Can go restaurant to eat liao leh at that rate ... πŸ˜„

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        ooptimizer
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        I give $5 per day, so far they haven’t complain.

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          Way2GO
          last edited by

          VitoRelax:


          P/s But I think your $50 per week is spoiling market leh ... Can go restaurant to eat liao leh at that rate ... πŸ˜„
          No.. he mentioned what his friends were getting but I haven't decided on this amount yet.
          A bit 😐 then.
          I gave him $30 for his 3 days orientation.
          Said he was very hungry during orientation.
          By 2nd day, he already spent $28 on food
          including dinner in school with his kakis.
          He seems to eat more these days.
          Growing spurts I guess..
          I bought mee siam for $2 at school canteen on registration day.
          He said a plate of noodles at the school cafe costs $3 (student price).
          If I use this as a yardstick, he needs ~ $3 - $4 for recess,
          ditto for lunch and more if he stays back for CCA.
          He would probably hv to stay back a couple of days in school for CCA
          and another afternoon at MOELC.
          so in all, $50 / week doesn't seem excessive.

          From young, I hv always encourage him to save
          some of his pocket money.
          He pays for his own mobile phone usage.
          He sometimes used his pocket $ to buy some tit bits
          for his younger bro now n then
          Nowadays he and his bro are contributing to buy
          cat food for some strays they adopted as pets.
          Don't think he has much left to save now.

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            verykiasu2010
            last edited by

            carebear:
            Looks like i kena ketok by my DS (Sec 1).

            He gets $5 per day (excluding ez link card, stationery), $2 for every tuition session (he has tuition in eng, math and science).
            That means he gets $31 per week.
            He saves most of it!

            Then my DD who is in P5 i have to give her $5 per day cos she agreed to do higher chinese, also $2 for every tuition session.

            That's why now i have to pack food to work for lunch.
            wah, how can monetise every thing one ?

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              verykiasu2010
              last edited by

              Way2GO:
              VitoRelax:



              P/s But I think your $50 per week is spoiling market leh ... Can go restaurant to eat liao leh at that rate ... πŸ˜„

              No.. he mentioned what his friends were getting but I haven't decided on this amount yet.
              A bit 😐 then.
              I gave him $30 for his 3 days orientation.
              Said he was very hungry during orientation.
              By 2nd day, he already spent $28 on food
              including dinner in school with his kakis.
              He seems to eat more these days.
              Growing spurts I guess..
              I bought mee siam for $2 at school canteen on registration day.
              He said a plate of noodles at the school cafe costs $3 (student price).
              If I use this as a yardstick, he needs ~ $3 - $4 for recess,
              ditto for lunch and more if he stays back for CCA.
              He would probably hv to stay back a couple of days in school for CCA
              and another afternoon at MOELC.
              so in all, $50 / week doesn't seem excessive.

              From young, I hv always encourage him to save
              some of his pocket money.
              He pays for his own mobile phone usage.
              He sometimes used his pocket $ to buy some tit bits
              for his younger bro now n then
              Nowadays he and his bro are contributing to buy
              cat food for some strays they adopted as pets.
              Don't think he has much left to save now.


              wah, no wonder some parents commented some kids can afford to lunch at New York New York and Starbuck everyday....now NY NY changed to Xing Wang liao ....hahah

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                Way2GO
                last edited by

                verykiasu2010:


                wah, no wonder some parents commented some kids can afford to lunch at New York New York and Starbuck everyday....now NY NY changed to Xing Wang liao ....hahah
                So u think $ 50/week is too much?
                He has probably gone to Starbucks twice in his young life
                and never been to NY NY nor Xing Wang.

                He should hv enough to eat with some leftover to save
                for those treats occasionally
                but not on a daily basis la


                I myself drink kopi at HC and coffeeshop.
                thought Starbucks n those other chains coffee
                not worth the $. :lol:

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                  carebear
                  last edited by

                  verykiasu2010:
                  carebear:

                  Looks like i kena ketok by my DS (Sec 1).

                  He gets $5 per day (excluding ez link card, stationery), $2 for every tuition session (he has tuition in eng, math and science).
                  That means he gets $31 per week.
                  He saves most of it!

                  Then my DD who is in P5 i have to give her $5 per day cos she agreed to do higher chinese, also $2 for every tuition session.

                  That's why now i have to pack food to work for lunch.

                  wah, how can monetise every thing one ?

                  Ya, my kids lidat one!
                  My son already asking me to will property to him as he is carrying the family name. He said his sister is allowed to live in the house until she gets married. Don't know where he learnt all these from. I certainly did not teach him all these.

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                    jetstar
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                    I am giving a $100 a month, excluding transport fares. That works out to be about $5 every school day.


                    I read a recent article last month about this school boy in Sec 3 that works as a runner for loansharks. He was complaining that his weekly allowance of $40 is too little. I don’t know, but that is more than the amount that i give my boy. So what exactly is too much or too little? Maybe it just boils down to the child.

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                      jetstar
                      last edited by

                      [/quote]


                      Ya, my kids lidat one!
                      My son already asking me to will property to him as he is carrying the family name. He said his sister is allowed to live in the house until she gets married. Don't know where he learnt all these from. I certainly did not teach him all these.[/quote]

                      oh dear, that is very terrible. The only times i give monetary reward is when my children do well for his/her school exams. Even then, I am feeling somewhat guilty, as if maybe i am wrong.

                      In any case, maybe you want to tell your kids that you will be donating all your properties and assets to charities in the event of any unfortunate events. That will make them less reliant on wills, and force them to create their so-called dynastics? :roll:

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                        buds hubs
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                        jetstar:
                        I am giving a $100 a month, excluding transport fares. That works out to be about $5 every school day.


                        I read a recent article last month about this school boy in Sec 3 that works as a runner for loansharks. He was complaining that his weekly allowance of $40 is too little. I don't know, but that is more than the amount that i give my boy. So what exactly is too much or too little? Maybe it just boils down to the child.
                        :!: I dunno what to say with teens nowadays..

                        I dont recall ever having such luxury.. Only got $1-$2 per day incl transport.
                        (Thank god for bus stamps) & had to work part time for other expenses.

                        I think, I would only give $3/- per day on normal school days & $4/- on days
                        with CCA.. On average maybe at most $25/- per week.

                        :celebrate:

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