DATING IN PRIMARY 3

[Mrs Chan]

Wow! WOw! P3! i guess i still did not know the difference between a boy and girl then.

If I were the girl’s mum who came back and felt very excited, i will take time to speak to her on this. Never ever let the 1st statement be YOU DONT DO THIS AH! you will close all possible sensitive communication in future.
My feel on kids now is that should they have bf/gf, it’s IN! So, the naggy part in us must disappear 1st. Make the girl feel you are IN, understand what they are going through, their emotions. then get her to speak to u. slowly, educate her what can be done and what cannot be done if she has a bf. objective is we want our children to confide in us.
well, i m not agreeing that they should start a relationship young, but i rem when i was younger, the more Mummy says NO, the more I want to DO it! hence, if they should step into a relationship, she must learn to protect herself and know what’s the priority - studies!

[MdmKS]

Is it common for P5 then?

[san76]

MdmKS:

Is it common for P5 then?

I guess, so.

I saw young girls holding hands with their boyfriend. Maybe this is the trend.

What happen if our kids also date early?

[Luanee]

My girl told me in K2 that she has broken off with her boyfriend! Luckily now in P1 she told me she is no longer interested in boys…

[san76]

Luanee:

My girl told me in K2 that she has broken off with her boyfriend! Luckily now in P1 she told me she is no longer interested in boys...

Hahaha,

Your girl is so adorable, I like her character. She is a tough girl. Poor boy, kana ditched.

[fo12eal]

I would rather my gal told me she date a boy then "mommy I am dating this gal" faint

[ImMeeMee]

i think parents should play their part by not encouraging such things. I have personally seen a mother asking her daughter which ‘boyfriend’ is she calling when she was playing with a toy phone. and then also bragging to everyone that there is a boy that always likes to follow her daughter of 5 yo.


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[jedamum]

ImMeeMee:

i think parents should play their part by not encouraging such things..

I had mentioned to my boy that it is more appropriate to wait until he is 18 yrs old before dating. If he has anyone that he likes, he can befriend that person and take on from there when he reaches 18yo. Nonetheless, occasionally, I'll still asked if he has anyone in mind that he 'likes'. That is in case he really does have but is keeping it from me cos I told him to wait til he is older.
Me : You have girlfriend?
Ds1: No la. You said 18yo what.
Me : Yes, but if there is someone you really like, don't be afraid to let me know.
Ds1: of course. I let you know and you get the rings for me, can?
:!: :!:

[ChiefKiasu]

jedamum:

...Ds1: of course. I let you know and you get the rings for me, can?

:!: :!:

jedamum, your boy is shaping up to be a great accountant.

[smurf]

Hi jedamum,


your boy is cute!