Does your hubby go massage by himself?

[phtthp]

heard there is a good massage place, at jb city square

[ngl2010]

:?


I don’t think changing massage location will solve the problem.

[hxranmay5]

there is no conversation or he deletes the chat…

[Claudie]

I agree with Michy79. You need to talk to your hubby about it and set boundaries! Personally, I would not allow my hubby to go for massages unless he is with me or with people I know and trusts. Sit down and talk to your hubby so that there is no room for misunderstandings!

[Alex75]

I dont go to massage by myself, my wife and I always go together. We seldom go to massage but personally it sis better if you go together and spend time with each other

[Sheena8]

I understand how you feel because that also happened to us years ago. I doubted him and think that he might be attracted to other girls. But I am lucky that my husband is faithful. That is why I was encouraged to enroll in a massage class to give him a nice massage every time he arrives from work.

[JassyT]

I guess there are no reasons why I should prevent him from doing so. People, regardless of your sexual orientation, need to have a Me Time once in a while.

[valvestate]

Joanne13\" post_id=\"1914219\" time=\"1560337927\" user_id=\"88592:

Dear all

Have not many friends so thot of vent out here.. Will u let your hubby go massage himself?
As we know .. massage is usually done by girl.. Will u restrict him fr going?
Recently I find hubby go massage frequent as he has nothing much to do when have off day or when kids go to enrichment class..
But one month twice seems too much for me n being thrifty.. he spends $60 each 1.5 hour massage.
And that day I accidentally saw he create Wechat acct and inside only have one friend who is a girl and name of girl is massage lady.
I thot there is no communication inside is ok for pass few months until last night I saw he take the initiative to say good morning to her after he goes massage on Mon and we just go another one last Tuesday but different shop. Necessary to keep go within one week?
Lucky there is no reply fr the massage lady yet. But I am shock and sad.. can't sleep last night.. though not much communication between he and the girl but moment he will add her Contact and communicate with her Sadden me alot..

I thinking of confront him but he may say why I peek his phone. So I thot of act blur use his phone infront of him and act like accidentally saw it.. now I thinking of try my luck asks him can he dun keep go same place massage as dun feel good.. but worry he may piss off and say I dun trust him.. hence wonder do u allow hubby go massage himself at the same shop every time? Just need some suggestion now on what should I do as I am very sad whole day n no one to confide to...:( can I still trust him next time? Before it gets worsen.. feel I better do something now..

Please help me..Thk u for any reply.

I honestly don't see any problem here. Massage is actually very good for your body and can even promote healthier sex life.

I guess the main thought here is that, what kind of massage shop is that? Those sleazy ones or just from those in a mall/ neighborhood. If it's the latter, I think it is fine, let him be. If it's the former, that could be some possible marital issue in the future.

[saniidris]

My partner also goes by himself, but I recently discovered massages for couples, and I wanna convince him to go with me to a SPA.