Any Mommies in mid-late 30s or over 40 with small children ?

[phankao]

tamarind:

Dear all mommies,

Do you remember the first time other people call you \"auntie\" ? How do you feel ?:

Ah... most still call me \"xiao jie\" . Haha. When they see me with my 1yo, most usually assume he's my 1st baby and shocked when I say he's no.4 and my eldest is 16years old and in sec 4.

[fussyMummy]

tamarind:

Dear all mommies,

Do you remember the first time other people call you \"auntie\" ? How do you feel ?

Actually I am okay with any kid call me auntie....

But hor I cannot stand if those auntie/uncle older than me call me auntie... :stupid: :x

Normally I will just ignore...

[duriz]

phankao:

Usu don't call aunty unless married lah

Heh, I know.
But let me share with you why I made this decision to \"aunty\" myself at a very young age of early twenty something.
My very good friend got married and had her first child when she was 19. When her youngest had his 3rd birthday party, his Mommy said to address me as jiejie. He looked very puzzled as he peered at his older sisters who were 6 and 5 years old, whom he addressed as jiejie. Then he said to me \"aunty duriz, why Mommy asked me to called you jiejie?\"
Ahhhh, got to love those kiddie nuggets
p/s I was 23 and unmarried then.

[duriz]

tree nymph:

Let me tell you all one joke.


A few years ago, I noticed that my period was very short and light. that continues for a few months. Short and light means i prob only use one pad and that's it. Was a bit worried so I went to a Chinese Medicine Hall and ask if I should take something to 调理. Thought maybe I should take 白凤丸. When I descripe my conditions to the sales assistant, she told me i have to take the special 白凤丸, I asked why, she told me that based on my description, I'm most likely having menopause liao. I was so :shock: :shock: ! Told her I'm mid thirties and I asked her if she has heard of anyone like that. She told me in straight and serious tone - yes, nowadays women are getting their menopause earlier and earlier. So its no surprise that you are having menopause... :!: :!: I was a bit alarmed, and immediately called my gynae to see him the next day. When I told the gynae my conditions and asked if I'm having my menopause, he :rotflmao: and assured me with tears in his eyes that I'm definately not having menopause. Just that the lining is thin and I may not be able to have kids anymore. :roll: :roll:

3 months later, I'm pregnant again... :roll: :roll:

My Mom had menopause young too. By 50 she was \"home free\".
It's genetic and I think it may have to do with how young you started to have your periods as well.
Every woman only have a certain amount of eggs and by the time they run out = menopause.

[shine_fs]

fussyMummy:

Actually I am okay with any kid call me auntie....


But hor I cannot stand if those auntie/uncle older than me call me auntie... :stupid: :x

Normally I will just ignore...

Some Ah Mah/Ah Pak call me auntie too leh..... :faint:

[shine_fs]

duriz:

It's genetic and I think it may have to do with how young you started to have your periods as well.

:celebrate:

[Fettuccine]

fussyMummy:

Actually I am okay with any kid call me auntie....


But hor I cannot stand if those auntie/uncle older than me call me auntie... :stupid: :x

Normally I will just ignore...

Me too, kids call me \"auntie xxxx\".
Now that I lost some weight, wah those uncle/auntie start calling me \"xiao mei\". Nice to hear hehe...

[sakura_2009]

shine_fs:

Some Ah Mah/Ah Pak call me auntie too leh..... :faint:

yar, my office cleaner aunty called me Aunty the first time she saw me

[KopiYing]

duriz:

KopiYing:

Count me in.


I'm 40 this year, have a 27 mth old boy & a 5 mth old gal. Who can beat me?

Me

Gimme a 5!!!

Stop at 2, really coz physically very jialat. No choice but gotta rely on maid to do hsehold chores plus taking care. It's really not easy.

[duriz]

duriz:

Heh, I know.

But let me share with you why I made this decision to \"aunty\" myself at a very young age of early twenty something.
My very good friend got married and had her first child when she was 19. When her youngest had his 3rd birthday party, his Mommy said to address me as jiejie. He looked very puzzled as he peered at his older sisters who were 6 and 5 years old, whom he addressed as jiejie. Then he said to me \"aunty duriz, why Mommy asked me to called you jiejie?\"
Ahhhh, got to love those kiddie nuggets
p/s I was 23 and unmarried then.

The same friend who has always been a FTWM even though she was very productive (5 kids) one day had the same 3 year old son call her \"Aunty\" when she returned home from work, hugged him and said \"call me\" :roll: