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    Daddy n Mummy, do u still hold hand?

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    • tankeeT Offline
      tankee
      last edited by

      springvinn:
      ya...should always maintain that simple touch....but sad to say my kid always come in between our hands. It ended up with 2 of us swinging our kid's hands. Ha Ha.

      this happens to us too. Just remember to hold your spouse hand when your child let go of yours 😉

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        daisyt
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        tankee:

        this happens to us too. Just remember to hold your spouse hand when your child let go of yours 😉
        tankee, this sentence of yours make me have this thought.

        We are always holding our kids' hand and there would be a day, our kids would let go our hands to hold on their spouses.

        We tend not to hold our spouses' hand more often than our kids, but its our spouses' hands who would continue holding with us, when our kids let go ours.

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          hapydino
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          daisyt:
          We are always holding our kids' hand and there would be a day, our kids would let go our hands to hold on their spouses.


          We tend not to hold our spouses' hand more often than our kids, but its our spouses' hands who would continue holding with us, when our kids let go ours.
          i like this thought of yours..

          yes, it is our spouse that will be with us when our kids no longer need us by their side..

          i agree.. so even after DD is born, we make it a point to 'pak toh' every now and then, just the 2 of us.. 🙂

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            duriz
            last edited by

            Yes we do.

            And if DH is carrying DD, I will hold on to his free (upper) arm. If I'm carrying DD, he will hold my waist.
            Then again, we are only married 2 years this Dec and DD will be 1 this Oct.
            Sayang your spouse.
            Your children will grow up and have families of their own.
            But your spouse is your life partner :love:

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              Kopiseesiewtai
              last edited by

              Yes…we have been married for 21 yrs with 2 sons aged 14 and 12 years.

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                BeContented
                last edited by

                Yes…being together 24 years (married 15yrs), we still do. But like families with kids, we also end up swinging their hands…


                There was a period when we seemed to be drifting apart and I was full of resentment, we didn’t…but I realised once you hold hands, it seems to bring back memories of partor days and some of the resentment kinda melted away…
                So I believe, it’s important to maintain simple touches like holding hands.

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                  sall
                  last edited by

                  No, we don’t hold hands. Nowadays, when we go out, we tend to walk in a single file, dh in front, then dd , then me. Sometimes, the order is reverse. Maybe the pavement is too narrow…

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                    puff
                    last edited by

                    Our hands r too busy when we go out with kids . DH hands push stroller, my hand hold DD 1 sometime my hands also need to hold bags n water bottles.

                    We only hold hands when we go out w/o the kids :love:

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                      Angelight
                      last edited by

                      yes, but it's holding hands with DD in between us. DD especially loves to hold hands with mummy and daddy. 🙂

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                        smartmummy
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                        ksi:
                        jedamum, you should be proud that there is STILL a waist to hold... :lol:

                        :rotflmao: :rotflmao:

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