In-law problems?

[hapydino]

Buds,


reading your post…

u have moved into ur own house already?? cuz u mention tat is the last time u will see her black face…

if who, where are the IL staying now??

can use the excuse where reno fully done for 3 kids… no extra room / space for them??

[buds]

If hubs has not dared to say i was right even when i blatantly was for the

past ten years... it is very unlikely that he would even mouth those words
to dictate to his parents... especially his mom! Even if it IS OUR HOUSE now.

You are right. I'm definitely caught. And so is hubs.

BIL & SIL have been having the time of their lives and i am very sure they
prefer to keep it that way. Un-intruded... peaceful... and their own personal
space where they can be themselves. BIL even went to the extent to
say that it would inconvenience him having them around... He's talking
about his own parents you know? So, I'm the only bad one? :roll:

[hapydino]

Buds,


pardon me if i am wrong… i think i read past posts that such logistics have been sorted out when u decided to bite the bullet and sell off the current house?? and it has been made known the IL are not coming along to the new place??

[buds]

hapydino:

Buds, reading your post.. u have moved into ur own house already?? cuz u mention tat is the last time u will see her black face.. if who, where are the IL staying now??

Yes, we have... though there still are things to be done. Some works
incomplete but it's fine. Good thing is we're outta there. The last time
i had to endure her black face was when the movers were doing their job.

That's another story... sigh... :roll: Reali sianz.

hapydino:

can use the excuse where reno fully done for 3 kids.. no extra room / space for them??

I'm halfway through decorating & arranging my classroom. :please:

Already have parents reserving places for lessons.

FIL told my DD2 that he doesn't mind not having a room. :whut:

[hapydino]

FIL of cuz dun mind… MIL would jump at the chance to be let thru the main door… prob is Buds would mind… a lot!!


gosh i sound so mean…

[buds]

hapydino:

Buds, pardon me if i am wrong.. i think i read past posts that such logistics have been sorted out when u decided to bite the bullet and sell off the current house?? and it has been made known the IL are not coming along to the new place??

Yes. That was what was pre-arranged... promised... and yet again unfulfilled
not surprisingly. It HAS been made known that they are to stay on their own
and in the presence of MY parents and siblings.

So far, in the history of the last 10yrs... promises to them are meant
to be broken.

[buds]

hapydino:

FIL of cuz dun mind.. MIL would jump at the chance to be let thru the main door.. prob is Buds would mind.. a lot!!


gosh i sound so mean..

No you're not mean.. cause i DO mind a lot!

I honestly cannot see anymore good from my ILs anymore.
They've crossed the line already.

[hapydino]

ur parents and siblings were around? wow! oso good, den at least they are aware of this matter and your husband would more or less keep to his promise, to you and to your family members…


was your BIL and SIL around when this matter is made known??

[buds]

ponyo:

Dear Buds,


Hang in there... don't lose hope yet. When God closes a door, He opens a window.

Stay strong and press on for the window to open soon.

As long as the door and the window is only for me and my family, i don't
mind...
Just pulling your leg... i'm so darn stressed out right now. :frustrated:
Thanks for the comforting words, ponyo. :snuggles:

[buds]

hapydino:

was your BIL and SIL around when this matter is made known??

BIL was around.