Anyone accused of being a good father but lousy husband?

[verykiasu2010]

ksi:

Just a tip for husbands.


It is better to be a good and supportive husband every day than to give a $x K gift once in a while.

Mark I don't mean you are like that ah.... :siam:

mark is definitely NOT like that ..... i remember in the money thread, we all know that he is so wealthy that his son does not know what is money ....so now and then buying a $xxk gift does not imply any guilt of whatever sort ....

[markfch]

qizai:

You're not a stingy person by nature. You probably felt the pinch because you think a bag that costs $2k is just too expensive. Have you bought a $2k toy for your child before? If you have bought $50 worth of toys for your child, chances are that you won't bet an eyelid getting a $50 blouse for your wife too.

Thanks, yes I'm not a stingy person. I'm actually quite careless with my money, that's why I perennially poor.

qizai:

You're man enough to accept your C- rating and share it with us. It also shows you're most probably man enough to ask your wife what you can do to improve your rating next semester.

I didn't offer any excuses cos I agree with my wife's rating. One of my enduring saving grace to dw is that I is aware that I'm not always rite, and know that I'm quite imperfect actually.

qizai:

Treat your wife as a lover and a woman, and not your child's mother who shares the upbringing and chores with you . In fact, go as far as to treat her as your mistress in bed. Heehee...

Kinky .... :evil:

[markfch]

verykiasu2010:

LOL ! you very 偏心 lah LOL!

Wat to do? DS doesn't impose his views on me mah, keke :lol:

[markfch]

ksi:

But seriously hor...I think the joy he gets from his ds face can never be the same as the joy he gets from his DW face.... So the rate of return is different even if he spends the same amount.

Wives, don't flame me hor.....I am also a wife so I can see the difference in the level of joy a husband can derive from the child versus the wife. As wives, we really don't have the same child-like happiness that can go deep into one's heart. In fact some wives might even be so doubtful why they received such an expensive gift, did the husband have any hanky-panky recently? :evil:

You spoke the truth, nothing but the truth .....

[markfch]

buds:

ksi:

Mark I don't mean you are like that ah.... :siam:

:rotflmao:

Yah yah, me not liddat. Me washes the clothes, then sit thru ds's piano practice, then read story books with him on a nightly basis while dw OT at work.

[verykiasu2010]

markfch:

verykiasu2010:

LOL ! you very 偏心 lah LOL!

Wat to do? DS doesn't impose his views on me mah, keke :lol:

by implication, who imposes whose view on you huh ?

[verykiasu2010]

markfch:

ksi:

But seriously hor...I think the joy he gets from his ds face can never be the same as the joy he gets from his DW face.... So the rate of return is different even if he spends the same amount.

Wives, don't flame me hor.....I am also a wife so I can see the difference in the level of joy a husband can derive from the child versus the wife. As wives, we really don't have the same child-like happiness that can go deep into one's heart. In fact some wives might even be so doubtful why they received such an expensive gift, did the husband have any hanky-panky recently? :evil:

You spoke the truth, nothing but the truth .....

please clarify hor ... :shock: :shock: :evil: :evil:

[markfch]

verykiasu2010:

ksi:

Just a tip for husbands.


It is better to be a good and supportive husband every day than to give a $x K gift once in a while.

Mark I don't mean you are like that ah.... :siam:

mark is definitely NOT like that ..... i remember in the money thread, we all know that he is so wealthy that his son does not know what is money ....so now and then buying a $xxk gift does not imply any guilt of whatever sort ....

jialat, I don't even bare to buy a $200 bag for myself you know. Heart pain for a few days after that purchase you know :oops:

[qizai]

Sun_2010:

qizai,

:nunchuk: Out with it Are u a DH or a DW?

I read ur posts in Relationhips , and here.
U seem to \"Understand\" and empathize so much with women , Me beginning to get doubts , real big doubts

Are you for Real mista??
My grey cells dont hfta work so much usually...

在下是铁铮铮的好汉子，如果阁下不信的话，那在下只好下场领教领教阁下双节棍的高招。

Just kidding... hope you dun mind.

My wife's been through a lot, so I can naturally empathize.

What's DH, DW by the way? I reckon H stands for husband, and W stands for wife..

[buds]

qizai:

Treat your wife as a lover and a woman, and not your child's mother who shares the upbringing and chores with you . In fact, go as far as to treat her as your mistress in bed. Heehee...

Aww man! You're good! :celebrate: