Club Only Child Club

[daisyt]

songeeling:

really stress me out...is it really a very big problem to only have one child?

Nope!

Now my child in teenage and I feel so relieve, I only have to face teenage problems ONCE. Sorry ... I am more stress out if need to face it more than once. Other parents can, I cannot ....

[mom74]

I am 36 with a 6yrs old boy only.


Same to songeeling, everywhere I go people will ask me to try another baby to accompany my only child.

I don’t know is it due to only child symptom, he always like to win when playing game

[Brenda10]

mom74:

I am 36 with a 6yrs old boy only.


Same to songeeling, everywhere I go people will ask me to try another baby to accompany my only child.

I don't know is it due to only child symptom, he always like to win when playing game

My girl also behave this way. Sometime she also likes to change the rule of the game.

[daisyt]

Brenda10:

mom74:

I am 36 with a 6yrs old boy only.


Same to songeeling, everywhere I go people will ask me to try another baby to accompany my only child.

I don't know is it due to only child symptom, he always like to win when playing game

My girl also behave this way. Sometime she also likes to change the rule of the game.

My girl not like that.

[Brenda10]

daisyt:

Brenda10:

[quote=\"mom74\"]I am 36 with a 6yrs old boy only.


Same to songeeling, everywhere I go people will ask me to try another baby to accompany my only child.

I don't know is it due to only child symptom, he always like to win when playing game

My girl also behave this way. Sometime she also likes to change the rule of the game.

My girl not like that.[/quote]Thanks for sharing.

Perhaps every child has different character.

[monmon31]

songeeling:

I'm 35 and with only one 3 yr old toddler.recently,everywhere i go,pp will start suggesting having another baby......saying she will feel very lonely when we are gone........i never think that far


really stress me out...is it really a very big problem to only have one child?

Yes and No. I am an only child myself so to me it is no big deal I still survive.

My grandma was bedridden for years and it was to have my aunt and uncles support - both physcially and financially. So when it comes to 1 child to support 2 old folks in the future it is tough.

Sometimes having an only kid is not by choice just that we can't pop another... :lol:

[monmon31]

Brenda10:

daisyt:

[quote=\"Brenda10\"]
My girl also behave this way. Sometime she also likes to change the rule of the game.

My girl not like that.

Thanks for sharing.

Perhaps every child has different character.[/quote]They seem to exhibit some traits that people on the street can straightaway tell that they are only kids....

[krazy]

I am signing up for membership here! hahaha


I also feel that people should seriously reconsider this \"yang er fang liao\" mentality. We will never get out of this loop if we continue and next time, we will hear our children complaining about the same things we are: support parents, and support children and not enough this, or that... GOVT should do more for this and that.

I like the idea of checking myself into a retirement home in the future and when I tell people that, they respond with shocked faces and then say, \"You poor thing!\" Ha haha ha.. of course i will teach my girl to be filial and respectful but I will not tie her down with my old age and the string of problems that come with it.

I know a family... perfect no. of 4... both children are working and their combined income is 15k. Parents are in their late 50s early 60s. Both children aren't married.. and live with their parents in a HDB flat.
Yet, none of the children give their parents allowance.

[monmon31]

krazy:

I am signing up for membership here! hahaha


I also feel that people should seriously reconsider this \"yang er fang liao\" mentality. We will never get out of this loop if we continue and next time, we will hear our children complaining about the same things we are: support parents, and support children and not enough this, or that... GOVT should do more for this and that.

I like the idea of checking myself into a retirement home in the future and when I tell people that, they respond with shocked faces and then say, \"You poor thing!\" Ha haha ha.. of course i will teach my girl to be filial and respectful but I will not tie her down with my old age and the string of problems that come with it.

I know a family... perfect no. of 4... both children are working and their combined income is 15k. Parents are in their late 50s early 60s. Both children aren't married.. and live with their parents in a HDB flat.
Yet, none of the children give their parents allowance.

Hi Krazy,

I have the same thinking as you - checking into a retirement home myself. My DS can come and visit me anytime if he wants to. If he doesnt want to also bopian. More importantly, dont want him to be sandwich btn me and his wife.

I told my DS - I do not expect much just dont be a bum after graduation and ask me for $$$. I only plan for my retirement expenses not yours. :lol:

[daisyt]

I remember in one of the meet teachers session when dd was in P4. Somehow was chatting with the form teacher and talk about my dd was a single child. The teacher was very surprised. She commented, dd showed no sign of single child. Very independent, helpful and caring to classmates.