Molest by someone you know
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I’m sorry you’re going through such a traumatizing experience. It’s either you keep silent about it or tell your friend about it. Whether you do either of the two, your friendship still gets affected since the scumbag has a connection to both of you. If you wouldn’t want to cause so much trouble with your friend’s family, stay away from them in the meantime.But I suggest you tell your friend so that she would at least know why you’re staying away from them. It’s up to your friend if she confronts her BIL about it…That bastard should at least be warned before doing that again to you. If he does it again, don’t hesitate to talk to the authorities already. I hope all goes well in the end.
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good for all of us to come out n share our own experiences of sexual offences, be it molest or rape or other sick stuff.
we’re a loving couple, new to this forum, but we both had our fair share of such disgusting experiences too.
we dun hide from each other but talk it out so that we are more aware of such things happening around us, even in our homes where we think are the safest place.
as the saying goes: the most dangerous place maybe the safest place, n the safest place may be the most dangerous place.
if anyone too shy to share such things in public can pm us - private n confidential assured.
ofcoz we will share with u ours too. -
recently there's this guy arrested for childporn n supposedly still teaching in our very own local school while his case is still pending.
wat u all think? wat if ur own kid happens to be in his class? u feel safe or wat?
good to talk it out in public? :? -
Even if we take a forgive and forget stance, it is important to give him a warning. He needs to know it should not happen again, to anyone. He needs to understand the trauma it could cause to other people.
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kaka:
Even if we take a forgive and forget stance, it is important to give him a warning. He needs to know it should not happen again, to anyone. He needs to understand the trauma it could cause to other people.
if the man is a sicko, do you think he will heed ur warning or cares? maybe we should let God or law punish him.. -
kaka:
Even if we take a forgive and forget stance, it is important to give him a warning. He needs to know it should not happen again, to anyone. He needs to understand the trauma it could cause to other people.
easier to forgive then forget lah.
being a scholar with so much knowledge in his brain surely he knows the consequences n trauma u mentioned mah - just deliberately doing it disregarding feelings n emotions lor.
and is he the only one or just a tip of mountain?
theres a saying: the unknown is more dangerous than the known.
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