Club 3 or more Kids

[Herbie]

I have to 2 kids, age 12+(sec 1) and 10+(P5) and i am wondering whether shld i have a 3rd kid. Any advise…???

[24hr-mum]

Depends on how old r u now, whr u want to go thru the whole childrearing and psle coaching process again, ur finances etc…

[Herbie]

Hi 24hr mum


Thanks! I am still thinking... I am not sure whether I can tahan the lack of sleep period.

:?

[24hr-mum]

ya. ur kids so big already. time to relax n enjoy hee…

[Herbie]

Hr 24 hr-mum


sometime i think if i dun have no.3 soon i may regret later on… so in a dilemma

[Lavender_Tea]

Herbie:

Hr 24 hr-mum


sometime i think if i dun have no.3 soon i may regret later on... so in a dilemma

If finances & health is not a problem, I think you should go for it. I regretted tt I did not go try for a 4th one. PS : Remember that 2012 is dragon yr, another yr of baby boom and competition, of course. 2011 is a better bet

[Herbie]

Hi Lavender_Tea,


Thanks for yr note. I am not worried abt the dragon year… I have already got one dragon so I know what to expect.

I have a boy and a girl so if i do have a no. 3 he/she can go to jie or gor school so is ok on the pri school arrangement.

My concern is whether I got the stamina … I am going to mid 40 liao

Cheers!

[24hr-mum]

mid 40? hmmm…there’s another thread in this forum abt the latest age to gv birth…


i only 38 already consider stopping. did consider whethr to hv #4 but really no $. unless all kids no tuition…

[glendt]

24hr-mum:

do they all have tuition? how to alllocate time n $?

Yes my older 2 have tuition, younger one has enrichment. I fetch them for their classes, basically my time is for them. As for $, we have to scrimp and save, no more big holidays. Our holidays we going to Malaysia or Bintan.

[24hr-mum]

on average how many tuition/enrichment classes per child?

my p3 has 4, my other 2 has 2 classes. i cant decide whc to drop becos all seem important