MY NEW LIFE - WIDOW

[autumnbronze]

Dear Dolphinsiah,


My deepest and sincerest condolences.



:hugs: :hugs:

[Xmasbaby]

Very sorry to hear that.


I strongly believe that no matter how tough it gets, you will be able to overcome all obstacles and emerge stronger.

Take very good care of yourself and JIA YOU!!!

[corneyAmber]

Sorry to hear of your loss.


It is definitely good to get into a support group to tie you over this bereavement period. Future may look uncertain but your children are your certainty, so stay healthy for them.

Come by here to chat whenever you need a listening ear…as you can see I have LLLS my way to GM-dunno-what-now(lost track, ah just checked GM eleven) with my many LLLS friends here. They are a delight indeed.

May you be blessed!

[dolphinsiah]

ksi:

Sorry to hear of your loss.


It is definitely good to get into a support group to tie you over this bereavement period. Future may look uncertain but your children are your certainty, so stay healthy for them.

Come by here to chat whenever you need a listening ear.....as you can see I have LLLS my way to GM-dunno-what-now(lost track, ah just checked GM eleven) with my many LLLS friends here. They are a delight indeed.

May you be blessed!

Good morning everybody ,

Yes, venting in KS website ...do let out my stress...and also update on the latest issues faced by parents, children....
My daughter always said I am stalker...because...information about her school(RV) I always have uphand....

KSI ,
Need to ask what is \"LLLS\" and what is GM eleven??? :?

[corneyAmber]

dolphinsiah:

ksi:

Sorry to hear of your loss.


It is definitely good to get into a support group to tie you over this bereavement period. Future may look uncertain but your children are your certainty, so stay healthy for them.

Come by here to chat whenever you need a listening ear.....as you can see I have LLLS my way to GM-dunno-what-now(lost track, ah just checked GM eleven) with my many LLLS friends here. They are a delight indeed.

May you be blessed!

Good morning everybody ,

Yes, venting in KS website ...do let out my stress...and also update on the latest issues faced by parents, children....
My daughter always said I am stalker...because...information about her school(RV) I always have uphand....

KSI ,
Need to ask what is \"LLLS\" and what is GM eleven??? :?

ah.... I am glad that you ask... Takes your mind away from issues when you discover new things.

LLLS= lor li lor sor

GMXI = grandmaster eleven because I post too much, now over 11k...you are at green belt...so aim for GM. btw, for each GM, you earn 1000 ks points. At GM6 and GM12, you get 2000 ks points. These points help you to bid in the auctions. If you are feeling blue or moody, maybe this can lift you up a bit... after all the LLLS, I had enough points to win an iPad during the last auction. So don't just stalk, POST!!

[Canvas]

I am very sorry about your loss. It is never easy to lose a loved one, especially one that you planned to grow old with. But I am glad that you sound positive and cheerful. Please continue to stay strong for your family’s sake. There may be some support groups that you can consider joining so you can share your feelings and struggles without feeling alone.


Please take good care…

[missbluey]

sorry to hear about your loss.


jia you~

[dolphinsiah]

:thankyou: to Everybody for all the comforting words :salute:


But now , the process of my belated husband Will is very slow....
Do not know what is holding ..... :?
The lawyers said needs another 3-4 months.... :faint:

I thought with a Will everything can be executed fast....

Now I am stuck with his car...have to renew insurance ...road tax....
Park there cannot use.... :rant:


Everybody thought with a Will , the lawyer will come to your house and read out the Will...
The truth is no lor....
You have to go to the lawyer office not like the TV show....
Then engage a Lawyer to execute the Will....which cause $$$$ again.... :shock:

If I need $$$ , I will sure die... :faint:

Anybody can share ....what is holding up the Letter of Probate.... :?:
Can how long does it takes to process....
What about CPF death claim.....

[explosive36]

Hi. Deep down I really feel sorry for the events that happen and happening to you. But being there for your kids now would be the great thing for both you and them. Time may be tough…My mom went thru it. We helped and to overcome…not to breakdown and disolve. You are still young and are full of energy. use them positively.

There are always help around…pls ask and you shall and will receive.
Look I don’t believe in GOD but I do believe there is always a helping hand in one form or another. Stay strong.

[LOLMum]

dolphinsiah:

:thankyou: to Everybody for all the comforting words :salute:


But now , the process of my belated husband Will is very slow....
Do not know what is holding ..... :?
The lawyers said needs another 3-4 months.... :faint:

I thought with a Will everything can be executed fast....

Now I am stuck with his car...have to renew insurance ...road tax....
Park there cannot use.... :rant:


Everybody thought with a Will , the lawyer will come to your house and read out the Will...
The truth is no lor....
You have to go to the lawyer office not like the TV show....
Then engage a Lawyer to execute the Will....which cause $$$$ again.... :shock:

If I need $$$ , I will sure die... :faint:

Anybody can share ....what is holding up the Letter of Probate.... :?:
Can how long does it takes to process....
What about CPF death claim.....

hope you are coping well, my dear. life is going to be different now, but never give up.

you may feel the need to be more protective of your child but remember it is better to be her friend at times.

definitely, it takes a long time before all the financial matters are settled and if you dont have any $$$, must borrow from relatives and friends..... :oops: and that is one of the reasons i always tell myself, my kids and friends to keep some \"私房钱“ (own private saving account).
this sum of $$$ will always come in handy at any time.

i wish you and your child all the best.