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    • A Offline
      Angelight
      last edited by

      dolphinsiah, thanks for your condolence. My dad had been ill for a long time. Death is actually a relief for him, at least he didn’t have to suffer anymore. Still, his death came as quite a shock cos it was rather sudden and I went thru a period of shock, denial, accepting of reality and grieving.


      Likewise, take your time in the grieving process. Cry if you need to and don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. If you really can’t focus on your work right now, why not take a short break and just focus on your own well being and your kids? Once you are more settled emotionally, then go back to work.

      I hope you have some close friends or family who are with you during this period of grieving. If not and you need someone to talk to, you can PM me.

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        kaka
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        dear dophinsiah


        Be strong for yourself and children, you will overcome this one day. Take care of youself physicially too … some yoga and meditation may help. "hug"

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          Flipper123
          last edited by

          Dear ddolphinsiah, i’m sorry for what happened to your husband

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            autumnbronze
            last edited by

            Dear Dolphinsiah,


            My deepest and sincerest condolences.



            :hugs: :hugs:

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              Xmasbaby
              last edited by

              Very sorry to hear that.


              I strongly believe that no matter how tough it gets, you will be able to overcome all obstacles and emerge stronger.

              Take very good care of yourself and JIA YOU!!!

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                corneyAmber
                last edited by

                Sorry to hear of your loss.


                It is definitely good to get into a support group to tie you over this bereavement period. Future may look uncertain but your children are your certainty, so stay healthy for them.

                Come by here to chat whenever you need a listening ear…as you can see I have LLLS my way to GM-dunno-what-now(lost track, ah just checked GM eleven) with my many LLLS friends here. They are a delight indeed.

                May you be blessed!

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                  dolphinsiah
                  last edited by

                  ksi:
                  Sorry to hear of your loss.


                  It is definitely good to get into a support group to tie you over this bereavement period. Future may look uncertain but your children are your certainty, so stay healthy for them.

                  Come by here to chat whenever you need a listening ear.....as you can see I have LLLS my way to GM-dunno-what-now(lost track, ah just checked GM eleven) with my many LLLS friends here. They are a delight indeed.

                  May you be blessed!
                  Good morning everybody ,

                  Yes, venting in KS website ...do let out my stress...and also update on the latest issues faced by parents, children....
                  My daughter always said I am stalker...because...information about her school(RV) I always have uphand.... 😉

                  KSI ,
                  Need to ask what is \"LLLS\" and what is GM eleven??? :?

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                    corneyAmber
                    last edited by

                    dolphinsiah:
                    ksi:

                    Sorry to hear of your loss.


                    It is definitely good to get into a support group to tie you over this bereavement period. Future may look uncertain but your children are your certainty, so stay healthy for them.

                    Come by here to chat whenever you need a listening ear.....as you can see I have LLLS my way to GM-dunno-what-now(lost track, ah just checked GM eleven) with my many LLLS friends here. They are a delight indeed.

                    May you be blessed!

                    Good morning everybody ,

                    Yes, venting in KS website ...do let out my stress...and also update on the latest issues faced by parents, children....
                    My daughter always said I am stalker...because...information about her school(RV) I always have uphand.... 😉

                    KSI ,
                    Need to ask what is \"LLLS\" and what is GM eleven??? :?

                    ah.... I am glad that you ask... 😉 Takes your mind away from issues when you discover new things.

                    LLLS= lor li lor sor

                    GMXI = grandmaster eleven because I post too much, now over 11k...you are at green belt...so aim for GM. btw, for each GM, you earn 1000 ks points. At GM6 and GM12, you get 2000 ks points. These points help you to bid in the auctions. If you are feeling blue or moody, maybe this can lift you up a bit... after all the LLLS, I had enough points to win an iPad during the last auction. So don't just stalk, POST!! 😄

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                      Canvas
                      last edited by

                      I am very sorry about your loss. It is never easy to lose a loved one, especially one that you planned to grow old with. But I am glad that you sound positive and cheerful. Please continue to stay strong for your family’s sake. There may be some support groups that you can consider joining so you can share your feelings and struggles without feeling alone.


                      Please take good care…

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                        missbluey
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                        sorry to hear about your loss.


                        jia you~

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