Growing apart

[Jennifer]

cwc:

Jennifer:

Had a talk with hubby ytd. Hopefully, we \"improve\".

Hope things are getting better .......:love:

:thankyou: he's still working hard, but talk to me more often these days.

U take care too.

[Mum1113]

Did not know can connect with pple here....like late night supper , late night NTUC shopping, rounder me x 4 ..


One thing about mine who likes to chat chat but only at night.....I tell myself must endure and tahan the late owl nights and sacrifice my sleepy eyes...

Takes 2 hands to clap and in order to clap louder , then both must work harder and in the same direction. Don't give up

[Funz]

Jennifer:

cwc:

[quote=\"Jennifer\"]Had a talk with hubby ytd. Hopefully, we \"improve\".

Hope things are getting better .......:love:

:thankyou: he's still working hard, but talk to me more often these days.

U take care too.[/quote]If he is making the effort. Remember to acknowledge the efforts that he has made.

That was one issue that DH and I had. When DH started making effort to improve things between us, I did not acknowledge his efforts and that became another issue as he felt unappreciated.

[Jennifer]

Funz:

If he is making the effort. Remember to acknowledge the efforts that he has made.

Appreciate the reminder. I hugged him last night before I dozed off :imanangel:

[QuiteKSMum]

Yes, reading this thread also makes me pay more attention to DH, rather than concentrating on DS all the time ... timely reminder as hubby will be one we grow old with... :celebrate:

[3Boys]

Jennifer:

Funz:

If he is making the effort. Remember to acknowledge the efforts that he has made.

Appreciate the reminder. I hugged him last night before I dozed off :imanangel:

Nice! Men really do appreciate these gestures.

[carebear]

My DH is always with his xbox or computer, or tutoring the kids when he is not at work.

When we have dinner, he will be watching TV as he likes to multitask.
When he is playing xbox or computer games and watching TV and I talk to him, he doesn’t even look at me.
Actually he has been pretty much the same since we dated so I have accepted the way he is. But we do have intimate moments when he gives his full attention to me.
I like the freedom that we both share.
I like the feeling that it is as if i am not his wife but his mistress or some illegititmate lover especially if we share intimate moments worrying that we may be discovered by our kids or the maid!

[QuiteKSMum]

carebear:

I like the feeling that it is as if i am not his wife but his mistress or some illegititmate lover especially if we share intimate moments worrying that we may be discovered by our kids or the maid!

Yes, carebear, I get what you mean .... :hi5:

[peapot]

Aiyo! carebear, you are so sweet!!

[SBKS]

basically for us, DW likes to slp. she slp most of the time and tke naps if possible. I for one do not likes to slp. cos its a waste of time.


so naturally, once my 2 DD sleep, my DW sleep. so even though any together time aft kids slp is not possible. unless of cos i request explicitly i supposed.

when they wakes, she wake for work, come home, settle their stuff and slp again. so wkends, bz with the DDs, watch recorded dramas, and internet. so where got time for together?

For myself, i help with the chores of DDs, sleep when they sleep, wake up earlier like 4am to do my internet stuff and study and play game online. aka all my stuff during that period till they supposed to wake up.

so do i need to take more time off my sleep time to do together time? or during wkends some time make for together time?