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      SAHM_TAN
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      cwc:
      SAHM_TAN:


      Since arrival of no. 3 10 months ago, I've been living in T-shirt and bermudas/shorts :rotflmao: I wave the white flag liao :lol:

      :oops: almost 3 years liao......i'm still stuck in T-shirts/bermudas/shorts 😉 Comfy lah, but like Janet, starting to wear nicer tops and nicer bermudas 😄

      Soon soon, your time will come.

      Yes, in the distant future :lol: Not that bad lah. I'm ok to be in T-shirt / bemudas/shorts 😄

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        smartmummy
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        Hi!

        My son wants to go to nice restaurants and visit overseas(me also).We can’t afford to this.I told him we save money for your future studies(currently we couldn’t save also as we are renting and my husband go low salary).He is 9 yo kid and very difficult to understand.I didn’t buy new nice clothes for more than 3 years.

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          smartmummy
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          Hi Janet_Lee,cwc,SAHM_TAn

          come lets celebrate :udawoman:

          :snuggles:

          :hi5:

          Did you husband realise your sacrifice and appreciate you?

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            BeContented
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            concern_parent:
            Hi Janet_Lee,cwc,SAHM_TAn

            come lets celebrate :udawoman:

            :snuggles:

            :hi5:

            Did you husband realise your sacrifice and appreciate you?
            No lah no lah.......I still wear t-shirt/bermudas cos' comfortable. If buy, still buy polo/t-shirt and bermudas :lol: But just find not much occassion to wear nice nice plus now BIG size lah. :rotflmao:

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              SAHM_TAN
              last edited by

              cwc:
              concern_parent:

              Hi Janet_Lee,cwc,SAHM_TAn

              come lets celebrate :udawoman:

              :snuggles:

              :hi5:

              Did you husband realise your sacrifice and appreciate you?

              No lah no lah.......I still wear t-shirt/bermudas cos' comfortable. If buy, still buy polo/t-shirt and bermudas :lol: But just find not much occassion to wear nice nice plus now BIG size lah. :rotflmao:

              :lol: :lol: Me also BIG size liao. I thought I could lose my pregnancy weight chasing after the older ones and caring for bb. BUT the extra kg loves me so much, just refuse to say bye bye :lol: :lol: I breastfeed also no use :lol:

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                TENNISMOM
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                I became SAHM last year when my kids were already BIG, like 12 years and 10 years. But I can tell they prefer their mommy to be a SAHM instead of flying around here and there for business. I surprised myself being able to adapt to domesticity so easily, fortunately I still have a part-time maid who comes to help me with housework, otherwise I would hate it. I miss my work but domestic bliss is also good. My hubby gives me half my last drawn pay as spending allowance and I get to keep my car and long holidays are not cut (yet) but I find he is now making decisions without ‘consulting’ me eg changing his car.

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                  BeContented
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                  TENNISMOM:
                  I became SAHM last year when my kids were already BIG, like 12 years and 10 years. But I can tell they prefer their mommy to be a SAHM instead of flying around here and there for business. I surprised myself being able to adapt to domesticity so easily, fortunately I still have a part-time maid who comes to help me with housework, otherwise I would hate it. I miss my work but domestic bliss is also good. My hubby gives me half my last drawn pay as spending allowance and I get to keep my car and long holidays are not cut (yet) but I find he is now making decisions without 'consulting' me eg changing his car.


                  ay ayeeee.....you sound like Tai tai :evil:
                  still have part-time maid, still have allowance, still got car & long holidays ....
                  I also not bad lah......I am the maid, i dig my allowance from savings, i got 2 'kar' and I got looooonnngggg holidays. :rotflmao:

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                    smartmummy
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                    SAHM_TAN:
                    cwc:

                    [quote=\"concern_parent\"]Hi Janet_Lee,cwc,SAHM_TAn

                    come lets celebrate :udawoman:

                    :snuggles:

                    :hi5:

                    Did you husband realise your sacrifice and appreciate you?

                    No lah no lah.......I still wear t-shirt/bermudas cos' comfortable. If buy, still buy polo/t-shirt and bermudas :lol: But just find not much occassion to wear nice nice plus now BIG size lah. :rotflmao:

                    :lol: :lol: Me also BIG size liao. I thought I could lose my pregnancy weight chasing after the older ones and caring for bb. BUT the extra kg loves me so much, just refuse to say bye bye :lol: :lol: I breastfeed also no use :lol:[/quote] :celebrate: we are big.I also getting bigger and bigger 😢

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                      BeContented
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                      concern_parent:
                      SAHM_TAN:

                      [quote=\"cwc\"]

                      No lah no lah.......I still wear t-shirt/bermudas cos' comfortable. If buy, still buy polo/t-shirt and bermudas :lol: But just find not much occassion to wear nice nice plus now BIG size lah. :rotflmao:

                      :lol: :lol: Me also BIG size liao. I thought I could lose my pregnancy weight chasing after the older ones and caring for bb. BUT the extra kg loves me so much, just refuse to say bye bye :lol: :lol: I breastfeed also no use :lol:

                      :celebrate: we are big.I also getting bigger and bigger 😢[/quote]
                      Sad hor :scared:
                      I from S jump to XL :yikes: just drop to M then shot to XL again.
                      now permanently stuck at L 😢

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                        wildboys
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                        janet_lee88:
                        Hi SAHM_TAN,

                        My son asked me why I haven't worn a dress for a long time. I told him practical clothes like jeans and tees are more appropriate. However, as kids are bigger now and no need to be carried, I can wear nicer looking tops with jeans.
                        Me too, 99.9% in tees/jeans/bermudas/sandals. On a number of occasions, my 5yo told me, \"girls wearing high heels look nicer\". And on one evening I wore a skirt cos going for wedding dinner, my 3yo stared at me and said \"today is very special, right?\" :roll:

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