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[ectanz]

sleepy:

ectanz:

Lots of relatives esp PIL suggested I shld try for son since I hv 2 girls but I don't think this will happen.

I've 2 girls too. Whenever my mum said I should try for a boy, I will throw this question at her, 'you want to help to babysit?' That's the moment she will cringe and quickly change topic. Worked all the times

My mil didn't even suggest at all. Because she opted to help babysit bil's kids so she dare not suggest to me to have another. She already forsee my question :rotflmao:

My mom on the hand didn't suggest this as she understands the hardship of going thru this without any helper. She can't help me much due to her age as well as health issue. However, my MIL n her relatives will keep pestering Me to try for a son whenever there is a chance. Since she is my MIL, I dare not to answer inappropriate manner but leave it to my hb or juz avoid this topic. My MIL will b mad if I talked back to her.

Fortunately I am not staying with her but pity my SIL as she has to face this issue of having another baby everyday.

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puff:

cwc:

Ha ha. Dun need 2 girls for that question. I have 1boy 1girl but MIL think not enough, must give her more grandsons. Initially when my mom still helped half the time, MIL would pester. Later, when MIL 90%, kept quiet....until sometime back, say 3 is better. Stared hard at her & asked \"at ~40yo??? U want to take care???\"

My killer sentences \"I gave u 2 grandchild Liao, get the rest from your other sons. Alternatively, DH can go get outside woman (but of course, this was calculated risk, knew she does not approve\".

:rotflmao: imagine if u got 3 let say another boy then her excuse for u to have 4 would be .. See 2 boys can play together but your girl so lonely nobody play doll with her .. How abt try for 4 th? :evil:

I agreed. However, most ppl think juz nice 2 hv 1 boy n 1 girl. This is perfect combination. My question is for those having 2 boys or 2 girls, what if the 3rd one is the same gender, r u going 2 try again? I hv a ex schoolmate, she has 9 older bros. I salute her mom 4 her strong determination. I think nobody can defeat or challenge her. :udawoman:

[janet88]

I have 2 kids, both in primary school. Literally tearing my hair everyday coaching them in their work...the roots of my hair is turning white and I'm not even 40...nagging at them to get work done, learn spelling etc etc. If my parents do not help me with the meals, I think I will run away.

[LOLMum]

:drool: another baby would be nice................. been pestering my 28 years old nephew to get marry quickly and have a baby for me to look after......... :drool:

[janet88]

LOLMum:

:drool: another baby would be nice................. been pestering my 28 years old nephew to get marry quickly and have a baby for me to look after......... :drool:

To play or to look after ? :evil:

[LOLMum]

janet_lee88:

LOLMum:

:drool: another baby would be nice................. been pestering my 28 years old nephew to get marry quickly and have a baby for me to look after......... :drool:

To play or to look after ? :evil:

look after :drool:

[MummyThreeStreams]

I have 3 boys! We tried for no. 3 not because we wanted a girl, but because we wanted 3 kids. In fact having 3 boys works out well for us. Our family is now complete. But now the grandparents keep suggesting that we should try for a 4th so they can have a granddaughter!


We ignore them…

[puff]

MummyThreeStreams:

I have 3 boys! We tried for no. 3 not because we wanted a girl, but because we wanted 3 kids. In fact having 3 boys works out well for us. Our family is now complete. But now the grandparents keep suggesting that we should try for a 4th so they can have a granddaughter!


We ignore them...

I like even number ... So stop at 2 :evil:

[BeContented]

puff:

MummyThreeStreams:

I have 3 boys! We tried for no. 3 not because we wanted a girl, but because we wanted 3 kids. In fact having 3 boys works out well for us. Our family is now complete. But now the grandparents keep suggesting that we should try for a 4th so they can have a granddaughter!


We ignore them...

I like even number ... So stop at 2 :evil:

Hmmm.....got me curious
So how many kids did mommies here plan to have initially and how many did you stop at eventually?
I wanted 4.....after 2 I surrendered, partly cos' dare not put myself on the 'chopping board' for a 3rd time.

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cwc:

puff:

[quote=\"MummyThreeStreams\"]I have 3 boys! We tried for no. 3 not because we wanted a girl, but because we wanted 3 kids. In fact having 3 boys works out well for us. Our family is now complete. But now the grandparents keep suggesting that we should try for a 4th so they can have a granddaughter!


We ignore them...

I like even number ... So stop at 2 :evil:

Hmmm.....got me curious
So how many kids did mommies here plan to have initially and how many did you stop at eventually?
I wanted 4.....after 2 I surrendered, partly cos' dare not put myself on the 'chopping board' for a 3rd time.[/quote]Planned 1 only due 2 work commitment but managed 2 hv 2. Having 3 is out of question 4 me n hopefully wont happen!!