Please read n help me if u can, urgent advise needed...

[urgenthelp]

Hi all,


How have u all been? Sorry went M.I.A for almost a month. Very stressful with work and home… Almost sank down into depression, but still can’t find any solution to solve my pro. I am very very sad. Feel that its getting worst…

Hope u all have not forgotten me. Wish to find ppl here to talk…

T_T

[dicky]

No worries… You are not forgotten…


Just avoid more debt, clear bits and parts whenever you can… The pro will take care of its own and clear up in months…

Keep going.

[jojo]

dicky:

No worries... You are not forgotten...


Just avoid more debt, clear bits and parts whenever you can... The pro will take care of its own and clear up in months....

Keep going.

ya keep going :rahrah:

[mommsie101]

Hi urgenthelp,


I just read a little of the past posts… hope you are feeling better now…
Keep going. Don’t give up. Things will be alright at the end of the day… you are stronger than you think you are…

[smartmummy]

Hi urgenthelp!

I always think about u.
We r here to hear u.Come and tell us! :snuggles: :hugs:

[urgenthelp]

Hi dicky,


Thanks for the reply… Still hanging there… Ever really thot of giving up, but when ever I think of my little one, I dun dare to take off my life… I feel pity for him if I will to go off this way…

Thanks for not forgetting me…

[urgenthelp]

Hi jojo,



thanks for the cheering… it indeed helps a little to me… at least there is warm here…

[urgenthelp]

Hi mommsie101,


Thanks for the post… I also hope in this way… I am really still confused what should I do now… Turn left I will have this difficulties, turn right I will face other difficulties…

Headache…

[urgenthelp]

Hi smartmummy,


Thanks for being there for me and remembering me… I am so touch to see you still thinking of me…

Well smartmummy, I dunno what to choose… Can you help me think also…

I only have 2 options now to choose.


1) Sell off the flat, pay off all the debts once and for all. And I will be debt free…
But I will have no roof under me anymore… I wont know how long it takes for bank to accept and approve my loan… Short 6mths, longest 3years… And I will have to rent a house outside myself… Expenses will be high as I am renting a flat, and other than the cash that I left over after clearing debts, I wont be able to save any single cent.

2) maintain current flat, but I may not be able to make all payments already as my son needs to go CC. And I might get default payments by other bank… The situation might get worst as we are oweing banks and banks are not doing well now, they may close our acc and sue us just to get back their $$… And my CB report will be worst…


How?? I really dunno what to do… Turn here also got knock, turn there also got knock… I very fustrated and vexed up… T_T

[dicky]

Believe the 2 options are not new.... :oops:


Will suggest be patient, avoid more debts and clear current debts bit by bit per mth. Believe option 2 is what most of us had and will advise you.... Maintain flat and find a inexpensive childcare like those under NTUC etc. Remember 2 years back, placed DS in cherie hearts full-day about $300-$450 (include we opted in some optional programmes) after subsidy....

1st option is easy way and fastest way out, but probably \"lazy quick fix\" short term solution but long term pain. Unless you cant even do the suggestion, then no choice.... :gloomy:

I not smart type, Red Swastika Pri old gal because of parents, then fared very poorly until go into ITE before working my way up to degree via distance learning pte sch.... Maybe smartmummy had better advise....