Please read n help me if u can, urgent advise needed...

[smartmummy]

Hi urgenthelp!

I can understand your feelings.Grandmothers doesn’t understand about discipline and it should be taught by early years.When I was working my mother was the caregiver for my kids.My daughter didn’t learn anything.They are addict to TV serials.She fought with my son and saw TV serials.My son cried.I respect her and I need my son also respect her.I told him ask GM permission.Actually I felt pity for my son.She can’t miss one day also.We can’t fight or make them understand is very difficult.Avoiding is better.When her serial/TV shows you don’t stay there,go to playground or shopping centre.Teach/Talk with ur son outside.What is right/wrong?
we can’t change people,but if we can change ourselves and get benefit from others.My DH that type.I always suffering with him.He doesn’t has any bad habbit.Only problem is he can’t change himself.My expectation is he has spend some time with kids.Whenever I told him he said yes and nod his head.Next time same.Sometimes I didn’t expect from him anything I do myself for kids everything.Then sometimes I feel my kids are poor.If I expect from him anything I feeel very angry and sad.so i think its better I don’t expect from anything.For him what I do we go out together.Then only he can talk with kids.Action only work for him.Just share my experience.Take care.

[urgenthelp]

Hi all,


How have u all been? Sorry went M.I.A for almost a month. Very stressful with work and home… Almost sank down into depression, but still can’t find any solution to solve my pro. I am very very sad. Feel that its getting worst…

Hope u all have not forgotten me. Wish to find ppl here to talk…

T_T

[dicky]

No worries… You are not forgotten…


Just avoid more debt, clear bits and parts whenever you can… The pro will take care of its own and clear up in months…

Keep going.

[jojo]

dicky:

No worries... You are not forgotten...


Just avoid more debt, clear bits and parts whenever you can... The pro will take care of its own and clear up in months....

Keep going.

ya keep going :rahrah:

[mommsie101]

Hi urgenthelp,


I just read a little of the past posts… hope you are feeling better now…
Keep going. Don’t give up. Things will be alright at the end of the day… you are stronger than you think you are…

[smartmummy]

Hi urgenthelp!

I always think about u.
We r here to hear u.Come and tell us! :snuggles: :hugs:

[urgenthelp]

Hi dicky,


Thanks for the reply… Still hanging there… Ever really thot of giving up, but when ever I think of my little one, I dun dare to take off my life… I feel pity for him if I will to go off this way…

Thanks for not forgetting me…

[urgenthelp]

Hi jojo,



thanks for the cheering… it indeed helps a little to me… at least there is warm here…

[urgenthelp]

Hi mommsie101,


Thanks for the post… I also hope in this way… I am really still confused what should I do now… Turn left I will have this difficulties, turn right I will face other difficulties…

Headache…

[urgenthelp]

Hi smartmummy,


Thanks for being there for me and remembering me… I am so touch to see you still thinking of me…

Well smartmummy, I dunno what to choose… Can you help me think also…

I only have 2 options now to choose.


1) Sell off the flat, pay off all the debts once and for all. And I will be debt free…
But I will have no roof under me anymore… I wont know how long it takes for bank to accept and approve my loan… Short 6mths, longest 3years… And I will have to rent a house outside myself… Expenses will be high as I am renting a flat, and other than the cash that I left over after clearing debts, I wont be able to save any single cent.

2) maintain current flat, but I may not be able to make all payments already as my son needs to go CC. And I might get default payments by other bank… The situation might get worst as we are oweing banks and banks are not doing well now, they may close our acc and sue us just to get back their $$… And my CB report will be worst…


How?? I really dunno what to do… Turn here also got knock, turn there also got knock… I very fustrated and vexed up… T_T