Club 3 or more Kids
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constancet:
:shock: :yikes: u wan 5!!!!??? WOW!! :salute: :udawoman: U sure is one BRAVE lady.. I dun mind having 4.. but 5?! it was nvr a number i would consider having.. U r a GREAT WOMAN!!!MintyMin:
tigger jie.. u r a brave one.. though some individuals might not dare to try after a miscarriage.. kudos to u n constancet for wanting a 4th one after the incident.. :grphug: to you both!
Mintymin
I have 4 at home now. Was actually thinking of no 5.
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Breadandmuffins:
I have the same maid for past 10years already but have no problem going without. No problem when she goes back for home leave other than having to pickup after MIL. My kids not so young, I'm afraid, except for the youngest. The only reason we have the maid is to clean up after MIL! *sigh*. I am looking forward to the day that the house will finally be mine once again - after 14years! (had maid from no.2 and then by no.3 had ILs move in bc of sickness). But I'm afraid that day looks nowhere near.Hi mother of 3 and 4 kids
Do u all have some sort of help at home , be it maid or parent or parent in laws? Do u think a sahm can handle four young kids without live in help? Me contemplating to go maid less after having maid for 8 Yrs? Can't wait to have my own privacy after so many Yrs....I know in our parents time, they were able to do so with neighbors help, with life being simpler.... -
With maid no privacy but add burdens. I need to take good care of her and tolerate her nonsense
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phankao:
Dear phankao, constancet,
LOL - if you count all the sizes, ah??? Then we have 5 violins (1 mine, 1 ds1's, 3 ds3's), 3 erhus, 1 jinghu, 1 viola, 1 dizi, 1 piano. Currently, the 2 violins, 1 erhu, 1 jinghu, and 1 viola are already competing for space in the living room corner!constancet:
Haha. For us, we have the piano and 5 violins, all of different sizes...
3 belong my hb who used to learn (really vintage cos >15-20 years old) and the other 2 belong to my no 2 and 3 who are learning violin now....
Wah Your Families R Really into Music Learning!
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MintyMin:
:shock: :yikes: u wan 5!!!!??? WOW!! :salute: :udawoman: U sure is one BRAVE lady.. I dun mind having 4.. but 5?! it was nvr a number i would consider having.. U r a GREAT WOMAN!!!constancet:
[quote=\"MintyMin\"]tigger jie.. u r a brave one.. though some individuals might not dare to try after a miscarriage.. kudos to u n constancet for wanting a 4th one after the incident.. :grphug: to you both!
Mintymin
I have 4 at home now. Was actually thinking of no 5.[/quote]actually I intended to stop at 4. But after the last unplanned and unsucessful 5th pregnancy, I realised I still want another kid..
I thk cos already chaotic at home, so one more baby won't make much diff.... -
Funx3:
Dear phankao, constancet,
LOL - if you count all the sizes, ah??? Then we have 5 violins (1 mine, 1 ds1's, 3 ds3's), 3 erhus, 1 jinghu, 1 viola, 1 dizi, 1 piano. Currently, the 2 violins, 1 erhu, 1 jinghu, and 1 viola are already competing for space in the living room corner!phankao:
[quote=\"constancet\"]
Haha. For us, we have the piano and 5 violins, all of different sizes...
3 belong my hb who used to learn (really vintage cos >15-20 years old) and the other 2 belong to my no 2 and 3 who are learning violin now....
Wah Your Families R Really into Music Learning!
:salute: :salute:[/quote]I thk learning music is good for the kids overall being.
DS1 learning piano, DD1 learning piano and violin and DS2 learning violin now. -
constancet:
Er, my kids like being different? ;D Just that the youngest is the copycat.
I thk learning music is good for the kids overall being.Funx3:
Dear phankao, constancet,
Wah Your Families R Really into Music Learning!
:salute: :salute:
DS1 learning piano, DD1 learning piano and violin and DS2 learning violin now. -
constancet:
I dun tink it is so much of whether the hse will b chaotic or not.. truthfully.. i dun tink i haf tat much energy for so many kids..
actually I intended to stop at 4. But after the last unplanned and unsucessful 5th pregnancy, I realised I still want another kid..
I thk cos already chaotic at home, so one more baby won't make much diff....
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MintyMin:
Nope, it's the ENERGY, plus Patience, plus need to *psyche* kids - all add to too much STRESS, so best to keep it sane!
I dun tink it is so much of whether the hse will b chaotic or not.. truthfully.. i dun tink i haf tat much energy for so many kids..constancet:
actually I intended to stop at 4. But after the last unplanned and unsucessful 5th pregnancy, I realised I still want another kid..
I thk cos already chaotic at home, so one more baby won't make much diff.... -
Normally I will make my kids very tired by :
Swimming
Running
Playing
Writing
They will tell me they’re tired and want to sleep. I don’t need to pat them or even say bedtime stories to them.
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