Recent cases of bodies found .... in water and on land

[sparks]

[quote]I wonder her mum had fed her even more hatred while she was alive by cursing together with her about her ex husband and probably her in-laws too, without realising that she needed more 'antidote' instead of more poison against her perceived or real unfair treatment.


Looking at the mum's picture, I have no doubt that like any other mothers, she loves her daughter, esp at this grave moment of grief. But somehow, love, if expresses through the wrong way, can kill.

I am also wondering if she has repeatedly talked to her daughter's body to let go and to rest in peace, maybe there is still a chance that her daughter's eyes can be finally closed by self instead of getting into maybe deeper sin of perhaps managed to come back to haunt the ex to don't-know-what-extent.

God is watching - this is what they need to know. It is not necessary for us to hurt ourselves in order to settle scores.

Only forgiveness can bring peace and can let everyone move forward. Bearing of grudges and thoughts of vengeance most of the time will only bring more hatred and hurt for self and people around. Her mum now seems to be consumed so much by hatred and vengeance that she may do things that may further hurt her family. Being the only surviving parent of the family, she actually is the key person to steer the family out from this tragedy coz she has other children watching on her(somewhat like a 'role model'). I wish she be wise...[/quote]I am thinking all these lines too...

[pinky]

phtthp:

dead mommy Sze Sze soul & spirit return home on night 25 ... reporter very brave, spent the whole night at her mum's house to witness her soul return home from nether world ...


http://www.kiasuparents.com/kiasu/forum/viewtopic.php?f=1&t=2689&p=595335#p595335

the reporter did not spend the night there, she was asked to leave and was told about the footprints by the mother the next morning as reported in yesterday's wan bao

[pinky]

and now the 8yr old nephew was also talking of taking revenge on the ungrateful uncle for causing the deaths of his aunt and cousin... :sad:

[phtthp]

why was the uncle ungrateful ?


seems like hatred & vegeance is now passed down from one generation to another. Time is the healing factor …

[verykiasu2010]

pinky:

and now the 8yr old nephew was also talking of taking revenge on the ungrateful uncle for causing the deaths of his aunt and cousin... :sad:

these are parents who don't how to be parents, poisoning the young with hatreds

[Mdm Koh]

So sad. How does the 8 year old reckon he’s going to take revenge? It’ll be a vicious cycle if this continues. I wish some social workers would reach out to them. The child needs counselling to help him get over his grief.

[sacredmusicals]

Very sad case. I guess it’s in our Chinese blood to indulge in conflicts and revenge.

[concern2]

sacredmusicals:

Very sad case. I guess it's in our Chinese blood to indulge in conflicts and revenge.

Mm...don't think it is in our Chinese blood. We don't feel so revengeful towards the Jap for killing our ancestors do we? Think they watch too much movies that drive in the wrong values..

[phtthp]

according to Chinese newspapers, this 8 yr old boy is doing well in school. Just hope that there’re school psychologists or professional social workers from this primary school who can reach out to this boy, straighten out his thoughts, dun think of ever revenging his uncle when he grows up.


the school should also reach out to these boy’s parents, because they need help to overcome grief of their sibling’s death, come to terms with it. must step out of the vicious cycle.

actually the father also very pitiful, when you read the article reported in the Chinese newspapers. He squat down at the entrance of his wife’s door for hours - with a new plastic bag of baby diapers in his hands, waiting for the door to open, so that he can pass pampers to his wife for his son’s use, when his son was a tiny baby. But his wife’s relatives throw slippers at him, made him leave.

[Oppsgal]

phtthp:

according to Chinese newspapers, this 8 yr old boy is doing well in school. Just hope that there're school psychologists or professional social workers from this primary school who can reach out to this boy, straighten out his thoughts, dun think of ever revenging his uncle when he grows up.


the school should also reach out to these boy's parents, because they need help to overcome grief of their sibling's death, come to terms with it. must step out of the vicious cycle.

actually the father also very pitiful, when you read the article reported in the Chinese newspapers. He squat down at the entrance of his wife's door for hours - with a new plastic bag of baby diapers in his hands, waiting for the door to open, so that he can pass pampers to his wife for his son's use, when his son was a tiny baby. But his wife's relatives throw slippers at him, made him leave.

So what did the father do to make them hate him?