Club 3 or more Kids

[MummyThreeStreams]

Hi veraclari!

How many kids do you have now? My massage lady has retired liao…she was really really good. For my 3rd baby I used another one recommended by a friend. She’s OK only, so I hesitate to recommend her…but maybe my standard too high since my first massage lady was fantastic.

[veraclari]

hi MummyThreeStreams,


i have 3 kids now. expecting my 4th, hence the lookout for massage ladies since due end year i get what you mean... when you've tried one of the best, the rest just can't compare? hahaha

btw, any mummies know where we can buy traditional malay bengkung? those that.'s a wrap like shoe laces, i.e. not just a long binding cloth? just saw it from a malaysian blog and it's not ex but sold in malaysia...

[MintyMin]

Good Morning Everyone!!


Wow! veraclari.. U gg to have ur 4th!! :salute:
When is ur 4th due?

[tigger88]

welcome Veraclari!


I am also expecting my #4 and will be due in early Dec. I tried 3 different post natal massage ladies previously and all are not fantastic. Hoping to find a good one this round too.

[veraclari]

hi tigger88, mintymin,


thans, i’m due end dec, but based on prev. preggies, think i’ll deliver early dec ha ha.

yeah, i’ve had 2 previous one but not overly impressed hence on the lookout for a better massage aunty? hee hee hee human beings are always greedy?

[Castle House]

Morning everyone…


Wow… impressed… 2 mummies here… going to have their 4th bb…

[MintyMin]

Good Morning Everyone!!


Pal!! How r u?

[veraclari]

Hi everyone, it's the start of a brand new week again!


yeah, having a 4th kid is a great joy... :rahrah: but it's also a challenge for me... eg. financially more expenses, and with the new baby, mum and maid can't cope (as mum getting old and health weakening) so DH and I think it's best that I be a SAHM and just watch and cut down our expenses for the good of our kids, BUt elders are concern about money so we don't hv their full support.

while we too are concern about financials, we want to provide the support to our kids as their education, care and concern are our top priority now as previous long working hours have affected our kids negatively... but the elders' concerns , which is not unfounded, and their practices which sometimes might not work on new age kids/all kids, are also affecting us, giving us indirect pressure... still trying to sort all that out.. sigh...

I mean, we totally appreciate their help and concern,but it's all about balancing and prioritising for us now... still trying to work a best way out.

[Castle House]

MintyMin:

Good Morning Everyone!!


Pal!! How r u?

Hi Pal..

I am fine.. didn't kana from the kids.. hehe..

But the past week was a nightmare for both hb and myself..

[Castle House]

veraclari:

Hi everyone, it's the start of a brand new week again!


yeah, having a 4th kid is a great joy... :rahrah: but it's also a challenge for me... eg. financially more expenses, and with the new baby, mum and maid can't cope (as mum getting old and health weakening) so DH and I think it's best that I be a SAHM and just watch and cut down our expenses for the good of our kids, BUt elders are concern about money so we don't hv their full support.

while we too are concern about financials, we want to provide the support to our kids as their education, care and concern are our top priority now as previous long working hours have affected our kids negatively... but the elders' concerns , which is not unfounded, and their practices which sometimes might not work on new age kids/all kids, are also affecting us, giving us indirect pressure... still trying to sort all that out.. sigh...

I mean, we totally appreciate their help and concern,but it's all about balancing and prioritising for us now... still trying to work a best way out.

No worries.. everything will work out fine..