In-law problems?

[buds]

Funz!!! :rotflmao:

[hquek]

Funz:

buds:

[quote=\"Chenonceau\"]Hey... thanks people... for your moral support. I need it. Must keep telling myself not to be scared.

YOU? Need moral support? :slapshead:

You'd smoke your way through just like you always do.. http://www.easyfreesmileys.com/skype-emoticons.html

I can so imagine her MIL telling her kakis..

I need moral support, I'll be moving in with my son & DIL. Everytime I set out to do something, somehow, dunno how, no matter how strong my resolve, I end up doing what my DIL wants me to. And to top it off, I end up doing it her way, willingly!!

[/quote]Dunnid moral support...need spiritual support. thought this sounds like 'kong tau' (hokkien for spell)? :evil:
:evil: :evil:

[Chenonceau]

Funz:

I can so imagine her MIL telling her kakis..

I need moral support, I'll be moving in with my son & DIL. Everytime I set out to do something, somehow, dunno how, no matter how strong my resolve, I end up doing what my DIL wants me to. And to top it off, I end up doing it her way, willingly!!

Kekekekeke! That is what I WISH I could do. Get her to do everything my way willingly. But for the moment, I am happy enough that she stay on her side of the house so that I can do what I want on my side... without her telling me that what I'm doing is wrong or ill advised.

buds:

YOU? Need moral support? :slapshead:

You'd smoke your way through just like you always do.. http://www.easyfreesmileys.com/skype-emoticons.html

It seriously IS scary ok.

[Sun_2010]

Chenonceau:

Funz:

I can so imagine her MIL telling her kakis..

I need moral support, I'll be moving in with my son & DIL. Everytime I set out to do something, somehow, dunno how, no matter how strong my resolve, I end up doing what my DIL wants me to. And to top it off, I end up doing it her way, willingly!!

Kekekekeke! That is what I WISH I could do. Get her to do everything my way willingly. But for the moment, I am happy enough that she stay on her side of the house so that I can do what I want on my side... without her telling me that what I'm doing is wrong or ill advised.

buds:

YOU? Need moral support? :slapshead:

You'd smoke your way through just like you always do.. http://www.easyfreesmileys.com/skype-emoticons.html

It seriously IS scary ok.

Abraka dabra!
Your wish shall come true

I would well undertsand your emotional state.
Try not to get too tense , its your home afterall

As long as you dont get complacent, things will workout.
Jia you :snuggles:

[Chenonceau]

Sun_2010:

Abraka dabra!
Your wish shall come true

I would well undertsand your emotional state.
Try not to get too tense , its your home afterall

As long as you dont get complacent, things will workout.
Jia you :snuggles:

:thankyou: The challenge is to master myself sufficiently. It's easier when you dun stay together.

[RRMummy]

Chenonceau,


:snuggles: Sending you loads of power and strong support to ease those knotted nerves... :hugs:

[buds]

Chenonceau:

buds:

YOU? Need moral support? :slapshead:

You'd smoke your way through just like you always do.. http://www.easyfreesmileys.com/skype-emoticons.html

It seriously IS scary ok.

It's the memory... the reminiscence of yesteryears tts haunting. Other than tt you ARE the gentle warrior princess who WINS, right? You definitely are brave to do this. Perhaps it's time to pin up the rules of engagement agn - how to fight n win? :evil:

I'd be stoopid to put myself in this position agn... if I can help it. Nuh-uh. No more little miss nicey budsy. Hmmmph. Get out of my life n stay out! :mad:

Strange thing always was, since I'm always doing something wrong.. ie. bad n incompetent mommy to my children.. the whale-fat, incompetent wife who can't please my husband.. an even lousy DIL who didnt even know how to respect n appease the ILs.. then why the fish has she been insisting to stay together with me? The ill-bred, incompetent, bad-everything DIL? :siao:

[autumnbronze]

Chen,


Sending some :hugs: and positive vibes to ya.

If anyone can pull through this, you can.

Best of luck and most importantly, BE and STAY positive. Don't let the MIL wipe the smile off your face :love:

[Funz]

:hugs: Chen


Remember you are no longer the doormat but the gatekeeper of the peace and happiness of your family. And after all these time, I believe your MIL too know not to trifle with you and in fact appreciate that you are a tigress when it comes to protecting your family.

[buds]

Ohh Chenonceau..


You have no need for weaponry..http://www.easyfreesmileys.com/facebook-smileys.html
Nor the need for spells.. http://www.easyfreesmileys.com/facebook-smileys.html
Nor any cause for fear or worry.. http://www.easyfreesmileys.com/skype-emoticons.html
Your motivation sells. http://www.easyfreesmileys.com/skype-emoticons.html

(Or rather SOLD OUT, cos so many of us bought it.. )
And we're now selling it (motivation) back to you. :hugs:

We'll camp here for any drama.. http://i44.tinypic.com/21mgqhh.gif\">
Or if there comes a need to drown any sorrows..http://www.easyfreesmileys.com/facebook-smileys.html


To good days n bad, DILs unite! http://www.easyfreesmileys.com/skype-emoticons.html

“The reason people find it so hard to be happy is that they always see the past better than it was, (or worse than it was).. the present worse than it is.. and the future less resolved than it will be..”
~Marcel Pagnol~

This is what i always remind myself to do..
Like the radio station slogan said..
\"Only hear the good stuff.\"http://www.easyfreesmileys.com/skype-emoticons.html