Adjunct Nanny

[Canvas]

The problem is my 2yo DD is extremely shy and sticks to me like glue. Can you imagine she still cries every single Sunday when we visit our in-laws? Sigh. That is why we need someone to come to our house instead where the environment is familiar to DD. DS no problem, he’s been an easy child since young. Also because the two kiddos sleep very early (8ish)…


Anyway, buds, if you do organize such a service again, let me know!

[buds]

It's really normal for a two year old, dear... :hugs: Really? :yikes: Cry every single Sunday at your ILs? :scratchhead: Hmmm... :idea: ... you got bad blood with ILs issit? :evil: I prefer the kiddies at my home as I have LOTSA toys and materials (that i cannot possibly lug to clients homes :faint:) and I have my own children for the kiddies to play with and I can take in at least two bookings at one sitting. On top of that, I can offer enrichment activities for children who are older who may not like to play. Children of different age will like different things. This means I need access to all and any materials/resources I may require to keep the kiddies occupied and happy. The idea is to make their time fun and as engaging as possible so they won't keep asking for mommy... especially for very young first timers. If kiddies are early sleepers, no worries as well. It's milk time followed by brushing of teeth and conclude the evening with story time and finally calming down time with lullabies (either sung or on audio) until mommy comes to fetch them home. There have been young ones who really need their afternoon naps when I sat them in the afternoons. We follow their rhythm and just help make them feel comfortable. There have also been instances where parents leave their children together with their helpers while they run their errands. I suppose so I can nanny them at the same time. :rotflmao: But it's really fine la. It's understandable.

[carebear]

Canvas:

Has anyone tried hiring child sitters who come to your house maybe once or twice a week? This is a common practice in western countries as most do not have live-in help but what about in Singapore? I am a SAHM who is up to my neck with the children and housework that I feel that the poor hardworking husband has been neglected. Hoping to hire someone who can come in now and then so that I can spend some quality time with DH. We have been stuck at home most evenings because the children go to bed early. I know DH really wants to do some sports like cycling or running but with me. :sad:

Last time my mother provided such service.
But now she has retired.
Maybe you can advertise your requirements online?
Btw, I have pm you, Canvas.

[jedamum]

How much will u trust them if not by word of mouth?

How much will u pay to consider reasonable?

[carebear]

jedamum:

How much will u trust them if not by word of mouth?

How much will u pay to consider reasonable?

Maybe can request a copy of NRIC.
Last time my mom had her fair share of stories.
One household she went, the mother (i think single parent) left her son with my mom for the night. Said would be back by 11pm but in the end came back at 2am and worst of all, drunk!
Then dinner did not provide for her child. My mother tried to search for food but nothing at home at all, not even instant noodles. In the end she had to go and buy food for the child.

[Canvas]

Replied you, carebear!

[Canvas]

jedamum:

How much will u trust them if not by word of mouth?

How much will u pay to consider reasonable?

It's not too bad as my DS (9yo) will be with his toddler sister. Hiring a child minder is the same as hiring domestic helpers, one needs to give the other person some trust and benefit of doubt. Of course, my husband and I must meet her and my family are comfortable with her.

I will pay the market rate, unless of course, the child minder is trained in some specialized area.

[carebear]

Hi Canvas, I sent a pm to you.

[buds]

jedamum:

How much will u trust them if not by word of mouth?

How much will u pay to consider reasonable?

Jeda... :evil:

Why? You wanna leave DS1 and DS2 with me to go stargazing with Jedadad is sit?

Dun be surprised if he does his homework neatly from the next day onwards.. Plus my DD1 loves Lego too and we still have our Junior Engineer gears to pit his creativity against her. For that... hmmm.. how much considered reasonable? :evil:

Still can remember DS2 holding my hand.. dun want to let me go home.

[jedamum]

buds:

jedamum:

How much will u trust them if not by word of mouth?

How much will u pay to consider reasonable?

Jeda... :evil:

Why? You wanna leave DS1 and DS2 with me to go stargazing with Jedadad is sit?

Dun be surprised if he does his homework neatly from the next day onwards.. Plus my DD1 loves Lego too and we still have our Junior Engineer gears to pit his creativity against her. For that... hmmm.. how much considered reasonable? :evil:

Still can remember DS2 holding my hand.. dun want to let me go home.

Lol.
I worry I leave him with u n then he'll tell u every single details at home including his mama's bad habits! Lol.
He is an affectionate n trusting boy. :love:
n then next moment when he tell his granny I left him w u, i'll be dead duck.